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Life has been defined by various personalities in numerous ways. Life to each is different because everybody is unique in this world. Therefore, don’t just get carried away by the definitions posted by many on life. Define your life in your way, depending on the direction it takes you. Erase the clutter of feeling not good enough, and now with a clear mindset, check what is stopping you in progressing in life. By listing down the reasons for not feeling good, you can work out how to overcome them.
Here are a couple of ways in which you can uplift your mood. By following them, you will certainly overcome the mentally ill state of affairs and travel towards a better mindset.
1. Comparing to others.
When you are not feeling good, you generally compare it with others. Ask yourself, ‘Am I good enough?’, but don’t begin to compare your bad with the good in others. Because, when you compare with others and identify with being a low performer, you begin to feel not good. If you observe with keen, both the above statements are the exact opposite, yet result in the same.
The bottom line is that you shouldn’t compare under any circumstance. But it is a human tendency. So, you cannot abstain from that act. Therefore, when you sit to compare the good in you with that of others, also, sit and compare the bad in you with the bad in others.
Because all human beings are unique, and each one has an edge in some or the other form over others. At the same time, all these unique pieces of human power are also imperfect in more than one form. Understand this law of life, apart from the answer to the question, ‘Am I good enough?’ and move on in life.
2. Negativity misguides you.
When you are occupied with too many unnecessary thoughts, they turn into anxieties and worries. With such negative thoughts, you begin to question, ‘Am I enough?’ and during the process, you drag down from within you, the hope of getting better. With discouraging thoughts that wander around in your mind, you misguide your goal.
Understand that thoughts are just thoughts, and they don’t essentially construct a framework that regulates and defines your life. Feeling not good enough at heart, followed by the thoughts of fears and apprehensions, exhausts the positive mindset in you, which forces you to act ruthlessly and unkindly.
Therefore, you have to completely stay alert in terms of the way you think and react. Replace the negative thoughts in you with positive thoughts or push yourself away from those bothering thoughts. Don’t let your mind lie to you and present a wrong opinion, the basis which you act.
3. Trust yourself with integrity at heart.
Spend time alone and talk to your feelings. Do check with them as to, ‘Why am I not good enough?’ Know your strengths and weaknesses in life and explore the opportunities and threats too.
Be honest and candid during this conversation. When you know that you are not feeling good, just trust your inner peace and move on.
You feel great when you begin to deliver acts of honesty from the heart. Thank the not so good feelings in you. Convince them that you will fix a meeting with them, for sure, later, but let them vacate the space in your mind now. Agree upon for a mutual discussion timeframe.
With integrity driving to uplift your mood, you easily tend to overcome the negative vibrations in and around you. You sense the feeling of being right with you. You now self-realize the answers for, ‘Am I enough?’ All these surface up a path with new thoughts that result in constructive ideas and productive actions.
4. Love and let love.
When your mind is in a state of anger and fear, it will automatically route you towards being inferior, sub-standard, and corners you towards a depressive state of thoughts, assuming that you will never be good enough. Therefore, you need to be in the company of loved ones all along.
Live and let others live. Try to sphere your thoughts towards positivity and help yourself live in the moment. With acts of mindfulness, also let people around you live life to the fullest, by assisting with all the necessary skills and resources, to the maximum possible extent.
Be specific in choosing the company of people. External sources certainly cast their share of negative influence over you, cornering you to think that you will never be good enough. Therefore, you have to syndicate up with like-minded people. Encourage the companionship of people who are filled with positive energies.
Having said all this, one theory on life has to be taken for granted. Life is a replica of a mere mathematics textbook. In the sense that, as you keep turning pages in this textbook, you come across more and more bunch of problems.
Similarly, as you keep witnessing day after day in life, you keep encountering more problems. Each day is a new day in the life, just as each page in the textbook has unique content or different questions. But, understand that, towards the end of this big book, you plot answers to all the questions that you went by in the previous pages.
Therefore, have patience in life and act mindfully by reasoning with your inner voice as to, ‘Why am I not good enough?’ Probe to understand the underlying reasons. Be practical in life. Think and analyze from the ground-level realities.
Make yourself feel good. Because for sure, every problem has a solution. Just that few are under your control, and few aren’t. For all those over which you cannot gain control, time will answer them. Just keep enough patience to turn till the last folio where all your questions are answered and all the problems in your life couple up with their solutions.
Believe in yourself. Know your abilities and skills. At the very outset, understand from your behavior who you really are. Spend time in isolation and do something for one whole day. Observe your acts. Make a list of answers you get to think over for the question, 'Why am I not good enough?' Doing so, you feel like doing those things which you like the most, especially when nobody is around. This is your true self. List out all the activities you did, being alone, and under no one's surveillance.
By knowing what you want in life, you easily make out the list of the rest doing which you don't feel good. Now, sit and figure out how you can refrain from those acts. Or if they really play a significant role in your life, how can you train yourself in leading life with them.
To pull yourself out of the pathetic situation and stay fit and healthy by the mind, you need to pay attention to the below-illustrated techniques and adopt one or more of them.
1. Partner with progress, not with numbers.
Focus on your work and how much you progress in life. Don't get carried away chasing around perfection, assuming I'm not good enough. Understand that nothing can ever be perfect. Because perfection itself is limitless. Therefore, try ways in which you can move ahead in life.
By overcoming the worrying thoughts, and giving up on the feeling of being worthless, the feel-good factor in you, automatically erupts to give your best. When your worries worry you, just give your best in whatever you do and leave the rest.
The feeling of I'm not good enough is in itself a feeling that hampers your progress in life. Success isn't everything and nor success is ultimate. Success is not even the end of your journey. All the efforts that you invest in, and the entire gamut of activities that drive you towards peace and happiness, is to be packed and taken in your journey. And that is what exactly counts.
2. Practice self-love without any bias.
Love yourself to elevate your mood. Don't fall deep within as you face failure or commit a mistake by uttering that I m not good enough. Continue to love all the odds against you. Love your true self, irrespective of the kind of traits, beliefs, and values you inculcate in life.
Gulp both the good and the bad sides of you. Your thoughts and actions might violate the standards of the people around you. And you might still want to groom so many areas within you. Still, stand by yourself and carefully work towards improving these grey areas.
Love yourself the way you are. Don't let the thought come in your mind that I'm not good enough. Although you know that you need to change a lot for your own betterment. Care and concern crop up when you master self-love. Because you can feel good from within and act good outside, only when you care for the one in you.
3. Give up on addictions and feel better instantly.
You might have one or more addictions in life. Begin to think in giving up on that, rather than thinking I'm not good enough. Try a simple practice. Attempt to give up on that addiction for just 21 days. Start working out on a plan. Write the plan on a piece of paper, and you will instantly feel good.
When your carvings for addiction bother you, and you calm down your senses instantly by picking up on some other good habit, it benefits you by manifold. Your every single step to moving in the opposite direction of your addiction gives you peace of mind and heart full of happiness.
You might start a trial to give up on addiction for just 21 days, and then you will realize very soon that on 22nd day, your mind no more thinks about it. This miracle of 21 days fits any kind of behavior. Practice this technique to master anything in life, of course, giving away your negative thoughts like I m not good enough.
4. Speak to someone and know their health status.
When your inner voice questions, 'Am I not good enough?' don't feel sad, rather, call up an elderly person whom you spoke with, very long ago. Just telephone and ask how they are, and are there any tips they have to offer you. Have a casual discussion to soothe your mind and thoughts.
Speak to your loved ones and gift them your time. Cook up a sense of humor to your conversation and divert your mind. Share your thoughts and feelings of the moment and let the other person make fun of them. Both of you share loud laughter.
Every now and then, you need to check with your mind what it is filled with and how does it react when your mind says, 'Am I not good enough?' Accordingly, spend time to understand the health status of your mind. Speak with it and with the haunting thoughts. Set a timer and flush them off as the stopwatch buzzes. You will now begin to feel a lot better.
To sum up, understand that to feel good in mind, happy at heart, and healthy by the body, you need to smile in life. Embrace all the problems and opportunities in life with a smile and refrain from the attitude that I'm not good enough. Do not be biased and treat them differently. From problems, you dig out solutions. And from opportunities, you carve out a better you. Realize that no time is good to begin something new.
The moment you think of something good, just do it, rather than waiting for someone or something. Accept the fact that no matter what, no one can ever be better than anyone else, in all walks of life.
By Mark
You generally feel I m not good enough either when you are not taken care of by the people around, or you are under extreme observation and scrutiny. Each of us wants to be loved and cared for, but when that doesn’t happen, you get into depression.
At times, our behavior makes our loved ones watch us, judge us, examine and inspect us, and even compare to others. This is such a curve where none of us want to be in. At times, no matter what you do, there will always be a person eyeing over you and trying to find fault in you and with your acts. You, therefore, have to mind your actions and drill more to overcome the discouraging feelings in you.
Embrace the listed down practices in life. Doing so, you can promise yourself a smooth transition from an ill state of mind to mental peace and harmony, backed by the richness in actions.
1. Look at yourself as a spectator.
When you don’t feel good, and you can’t turn them to your favor, simply come out of your body. Imagine you are a spectator or an outsider to the mind where your worries are parked. Ask as a stakeholder, ‘Are you good enough?’ Now, the task of giving away countless suggestions becomes much easy.
It is a human tendency that suggestions are given away without any pain, but for the receiver, it becomes a tough task to choose whether to neglect them or to follow them. As an outsider, the suggestions you make are to be given importance. Flip the other side of you to list the suggestions coming your way and try them.
With an anxious mind, you cannot think effectively. List down the top three answers that you get by asking your mind, ‘Are you good enough?’ With this list in hand, offer suggestions as a stranger. Because when one suggests you, it becomes relatively easy to follow blindly, of course, only when you rely on the other person. Since, in this case, the suggestion maker is you yourself, as a receiver, you will certainly trust and try them.
2. Mindset vs. Memory.
When your mind wanders around unwarranted thoughts, you feel sick, thinking I m not good enough and are usually unwilling to take up any task, even the simplest one. This is predominantly because you lack focus, dedication, and needless to say, the requisite memory skills needed to boost your performance.
Similarly, when your memory is weak, you cannot concentrate on any task. This results in unfavorable and sub-standard outcomes. This, in turn, leads to mental sickness. All these series of activities in you direct you towards the feeling of not being good.
Since mental health and memory skills are directly related to each other, to uplift your mental health, you need to attempt more memory training games. Your mind always keeps wandering and keeps uttering, ’I’m not good enough.’ At times like these, you need to carefully invest in more time in tuning your memory by undergoing workshops or playing brain sharpening and memory strengthening games.
3. Boost yourself.
Recollect all the strengths in you. Dig into your past to list out and memorize all that you accomplished in life. You feel not good enough when you are in trouble. This is the time when you have to recollect your bad experiences along with your achievements in life. Get lost into obstacles and challenges from the past that you ultimately succeeded. Boost your morale with these thoughts.
When you feel upset because of a failure, think of failures from the past that you rocked on. Tell yourself that you will expand your skills, and slowly you can come out of this concern. By boosting your esteem and spirits, you drive carefully towards inner peace, a calm state of mind, and harmony.
It is fine to connect and collaborate with others to overcome the upsetting state of mind that always keeps proclaiming that, ‘I’m not good enough.’ A simple way to handle this is by spreading a smile.
Impart your smile, because it costs nothing. Do invite people with a smile. Invite problems also with a smile. Challenge your thoughts that your mind is busy with other commitments and can’t offer space for domesticating them.
4. Change your perspective.
Shift your thoughts to confidently communicate that, ‘I am good enough.’ Change the way to think about something or someone. Look at the known world from a varied perspective. Observe the new world with positivity in mind. Adopt techniques to overcome the fears and regulate your senses.
Expand your horizons and spread your wings of talent in other aspects as well. This will help you view the surroundings and situations from multiple angles. Try to be a jack of all, so that you can analyze a problem and come up with various solving procedures.
To feel good at heart, try to do the same monotonous task differently this time. You feel so refreshed and rebalanced by working out the efficiency and effectiveness of you. You soon declare, ‘I am good enough.’ And with such new and positive thoughts, emerge the new ideas, leading to the presentation of a new you to the world.
The fear when you feel not good enough multiplies even further as you keep carrying the feelings of inadequacy and rejections. Never judge your capability just because someone gave you negative feedback. The best thing you could do in such a situation is to accept this negative feedback constructively and give your better version the next time.
Not being able to focus at work, failing to give your best in areas of your strengths, surrounded by negative thoughts, etc. to name a few could redirect your life towards the emotion of not feeling good. Therefore, choose righteously the techniques stated above and overcome the mood of numbness. Doing so, you redesign your life in a much better way.
By Emma
The feeling in you that says, 'I am not good enough' actually begins the moment you start comparing your performance to those of others. Needless to say, it is not unnatural that comparing is the general human tendency.
Nobody can be perfect in this world. Because unless you don't quantify an action, it is not easy for you to compare. And there is no end to numbers in this world. Numbers run into infinite. Even if someone achieves an X number, there will be somebody else who has already made it to, or will make it to an X plus a one.
Therefore, don't get carried away by what others are doing and disregard yourself. Just give your best and overcome the fears in life.
You can choose to settle with the below-quoted procedures in life, to reveal a better you to the world. With a calm mind, you make wise decisions and direct your life towards recovery.
1. Present the bona fide you to the world.
When you compromise and adjust your preferences to suit the demands of your world, you certainly feel not being good enough. Still, you continue being so, without knowing why am I not good enough, just because you feel inferior to present the real you. Therefore, stop feeling that you are unfit and unworthy in life.
Explore what the demand of the hour is. Work out ways in which you can refine the existing talent and shape up new talent. Attempt strategies to bring out the best in you. Discover new circumstances and build the will power to face new challenges. You thereby enrich both your experience and exposure to the world. Groom the one resting inside you and then present the authentic you to the world with much confidence and resilience.
Try to be open and honest when talking to yourself in isolation. Cultivate intimacy and feel what your true emotions are with regard to why am I not good enough. Break the barriers lying between you and your inner self. Challenge yourself, learn, master, and practice getting better day after day.
2. Breathe in the present.
To lead a happy life and to overcome the feeling of an unhealthy mindset, you need to master the art of living in the present. Live in the moment by giving away thoughts that keep voicing out, 'I am not good enough.' Practice being present by mind and body. Pay one hundred percent attention to whatever task you deliver, for yourself or others.
Create a healthy environment and a positive spirit to energize your association with the work you picked to deliver. Understand that relationships are not merely between people. A relationship can be between you and your inner self too. Improve it first.
Strengthen the sense of feeling good by letting out the feeling of I'm not good enough. Soothe your mind and calm it down. Only when you let it say what it has to convey, then will you understand the right kind of road map to pick and play in life. Approve your inner feelings to stay connected to the present.
3. Understand your preferences and priorities in life.
Know your needs and meet your wants. Chase your passions and question with courage at heart, 'Am I not good enough?' Know why you are not good. Check if you are delivering things the right way or not. Do not postpone your needs. Understand your priorities in life and make commitments to facilitate your personal and professional space. Sustain a balance between either phase of life. Tune yourself.
When unwarranted feelings bother your inner peace and set you in a disturbed state of mind, pause from what you are doing, and help yourself. Think if these thoughts really mean or convey something important to you. Realize better to calm them down.
Primarily, when your heart says something, and when your mind asks you to do something else, the conflict arises that makes you not feel I'm not enough. You will then end up not valuing yourself. You might even underestimate your ethics. So, don't fall for your mind. Follow your heart.
4. Quest for happiness in the smaller tasks too.
Love unconditionally whatever you do even if your mind says I'm not good enough. No matter how big or small, how important or insignificant the task be, just love it in the first place. Unless you don't love what you do, you cannot give your fullest. The moment you give your best, your mood automatically uplifts.
Understand that every single task, no matter how big it is, can be broken down into smaller actionable chunks of tasks. When you consciously put effort and aim to deliver your finest art, irrespective of whether you achieve the desired output or not, you feel happy for your efforts.
By being happy, even doing the petty things in life, you self-regulate your senses. By suppressing the feelings that haunt you saying that I'm not good enough, you are actually turning towards positivity in life. You soon begin to cultivate the art of feel-good factor, no matter what kind of situation you are in. You spread smiles by being happy. Your smiles, in turn, reflect upon your actions. You turn reliable.
If you are someone who is not feeling good just because you are hurt by your inner soul or by the external factors, then quickly revamp your mood. Understand the triggers that are causing you to question, 'Am I not good enough?' Because if you wish to have inner peace, you must know how to handle the feelings that hurt you.
It is very common that the ego in you turns to its full swing when someone rubs in an unethical manner. It is time for you to act with wisdom, and not show your attitude for the wrong behaviors of others. Master the above techniques in dealing with feelings and sweep off the immoral and wicked in you.
By Charlotte
The feeling of not good can erupt out of the lifestyle you are leading, or it can be the feeling infused from an external source upon you. If you would like to attempt to bring out the feel-good factor in you, simply make your own commitments.
Come what may just give your best by acting mindfully even when your best is not good enough for display. Don’t try to enact perfectionism, because everybody knows that nobody is perfect. Merely stop thinking about those that make you feel bad and reroute the thoughts that drive the motivation and inspiration in you towards good.
The feeling of I m good enough might sound morbid, but it stings and hampers your growth. Therefore, be wise to pick up yourself when you fall, by adopting the below course of action.
1. Imagine worse, to live in better.
If you want to lead a good life, you first need to have the courage to face the bad phase of life. Imagine being in a worse situation, rather than assuming I m good enough. Then you will no longer feel the bad situation to be really bad. Try to pull out the hidden peace resting deep inside and act wisely with an educated mindset.
Let go of the worries from your mind. Of course, it is easy said than done. But if you are in a damaging situation, then just recollect from your own experiences, of an even worse scenario that you cracked out well. This will give rebirth to the positivity in you.
Appreciate where you are now rather than not feeling good enough. Learn to understand that situations are bound to change with the lapse of time. But because you cannot wait for the right time to come, just use your energies to control the situation, by regulating the time to the extent possible.
2. Join them if you can’t beat them.
Feelings are very much controllable. The primary reason being, they erupt out of place called to mind, which is very well a part of your whole. Therefore, work out different ways to give the best possible by controlling your senses that, in turn, control your feelings.
Don’t worry about the results, because the incredible amount of efforts that go into it matter most. So, don’t setback when your best is not good enough.
When you fail to gain control over your feelings, and you firmly believe that you can’t beat them anymore, better to join them. Set an ambiance of negotiation and compromise with your work for now. Devote time to think about what your mind is thinking. Keep the rest of your work aside and spend time thinking about your feelings for a little while.
Do this uninterruptedly for about 15 minutes instead of not feeling good enough. Now communicate them that you had already given enough time. Express clearly to your feelings and inner thoughts that you now have other important works to attend to. Close the discussion quickly by bidding them sayonara.
3. Cross over the speed breakers.
Understand that obstacles are part of life. When your inner voice says, ‘I feel like I’m not good enough today,’ then simply compare it to a gorgeous rose plant. How common it is for a rose plant that has prickles to its stem, so much so common it is for a beautiful life to have challenges in its path. Hence, to invite happiness, you should be equally prepared to face the hurdles that come pre-packed.
If you like a flower, you will be tempted to pluck it. But if you love that flower, you will ensure that nobody plucks it. Treat your life too to be a garden of such flowers. Don’t set yourself into a depressive state of mind because of the confrontations that you come across.
Rather, domesticate them and allow them in your life by saying I’m enough. Now, burn down these obstacles into ashes and keep moving in life. Understand that speed breakers on the road are meant only to pause and find a better approach, not to halt down there itself.
4. Be determined to tune your life.
You feel bad because you are not good at everything in this world, and yet keep convincing yourself saying I’m enough. At this juncture, accept the fact that every other person in this world is similar to you.
Moreover, it is the general human tendency in the sense that no individual is perfect in an all-round sense. You have your own strengths and weaknesses too.
As per the need of the hour, inculcate new habits and skills in your life. Build up levels of self-esteem. Nurture and take the best possible care of yourself. Carve a remarkable picture of your philosophies and present yourself to the world. Change your life to keep upgrading every day.
As part of feeling good, you have to feed yourself with all that you like, and yet it is good for your health. Don’t feel bad that you were never good enough and don’t need to care for yourself. Ensure to stay fit and healthy, by both mind and body. Check if you are really sleeping enough. Practice self-care works and revamp your life for good things to flow in.
Lastly, understand that if you are not feeling good, that’s just because you are unhappy with your mind that keeps taunting, ‘I feel like I’m not good enough.’ So, first, you need to identify the reason which is erupting out the unhappiness in you and causing you trouble.
Before you react to a moment, and much before you feel unhappy saying that you were never good enough, there will be one or more underlying triggers. Identify these triggers because of which this entire vicious circle is rolling out. Spot all such triggers. Soothe them by bringing to practice the above-quoted behaviors and lead a life the way you want and foresee it to be.
By Oliver
20 ways to overcome the feeling of ‘I am not good enough.’
We all hit a point in life or even in a day where we feel ‘am I really good enough’.
So, how to move on from this feeling?
How to deal with ‘I don’t feel good enough’?
We will help you with that.
Here are 20 ways to overcome ‘I am not good enough’ feeling that comes to us.
Go through them one by one. You can see what you can do and what you can avoid to cross over the ‘I am not good enough’ feeling.
1. When you lack self-confidence
It becomes hard to overcome ‘I am not good enough’ feeling when there is no self-confidence.
This is the first mental block we have to remove.
Build your self-confidence. Don’t allow it to break at any cost for anything.
2. You are more than your mistakes:
Earning a low salary compared to your friends? That’s fine. It doesn’t mean you are not good enough.
Made a mistake? It doesn’t define who you are.
Your salary, body type, your accidental mistakes, the place you live, the car you have, the job you do doesn’t define who you are.
Remember this always.
3. You cannot be ‘everything.’
It is impossible to be perfect at everything.
If you try to be, you will find something missing always. We feel we are not good enough.
Make progress. Develop into a better self. Be better than who you were yesterday. This is what matters.
4. The inside reflects on the Outside
You won’t feel good enough if you don’t feel good from within.
Build your self-respect and self-confidence.
Embrace self-compassion and self-acceptance in life.
5. Set the right tone for ‘perfection.’
Perfection means different for different people.
Set the tone of perfectionism for your own life. Build your life block by block. Come with a perfect building of your own filled with happiness and content. This is the best answer for ‘am I good enough’ question.
Don’t be intimidated by the perfection tone set by other people.
6. What is making you insecure?
Your Insecurities are the dominant culprits.
Our insecurities will make us feel we are not good enough.
Self-doubt, past failures, uncomfortable in socializing, lack of self-confidence are few common insecurities, everyone faces in life.
Identify what is making you insecure. You can easily change it.
7. Accept your Downside
Accepting that you are not perfect, and you have things to figure out is good.
In a way, you are overcoming the ‘I am not good’ mindset and moving to ‘I can improve’ mindset.
8. Set Digital Boundaries:
Not all the time. But, often, social media is making people feel they are not good enough with what they do and what they have. Somehow, the picture-perfect feeds bring insecurity to people.
Avoid negative experiences that social media has.
9. The path for ‘You’ is different.
We all have a different life. The way we think, act, speak, and perceive life can be different. Then why do we have to look into each other’s path or try to travel in it? We can end feeling ‘my life is not good enough.’
Let’s travel in our path at our own pace.
10. You are not alone
Are you thinking ‘Am I really good enough’? You are not alone in this.
What makes people stronger and successful is, they get over the ‘I am not good enough’ thought.
And, they look at the next thing they need to do.
11. Get Back
If your inner critic keeps saying, ‘I am not good enough,’ let it say.
Put your attention to the work you have in hand and not to the inner-critic.
Focus on where you want to go or what you want to do. Silence the inner-critic saying ‘You are inadequate’.
Get back stronger.
12. Acknowledge your little success too.
Don’t say, “This is nothing” when you did something good.
Even if it is little, give credits to the efforts, energy, and work you put into it.
The feeling of ‘I am not good enough will not go unless you make little self-appreciation efforts.
13. ‘When you feel down, go be a blessing to somebody else.” – Joyce Meyer
This is by far the best among the 20 ways to overcome the feeling that I am not good enough.
When you feel like you are not good enough, do whatever you can to be a blessing in somebody’s life.
A smile, a hand of help, appreciative words, an extra box of food for the homeless on your way to work, etc. are little things that can be a blessing to those who receive it.
If you are kind, helping and empathetic, there is no way you are not good enough.
14. Is someone or something making you feel you are not good enough?
The flipside to ‘I am not enough’ feeling is, it is not always internal.
Bad relationships, negative people, jealous people, bad jobs can make you feel you are not good enough.
The next time you feel ‘I am not good enough,’ remember to see if something or someone is making you feel so. Don’t jump right into the feeling of ‘I don’t do anything well.’
15. You need Failures in Life
Accept failures. They are like a reality check for you to see where you lag and where you need to improve.
It’s okay to fail. But it is not okay to let failure make you feel you are not enough.
16. Is there a ‘Demand’ before you?
If your family, friends, relationships, and jobs demanding too much from you?
Too many demands and expectations from other people will make you doubt yourself about ‘am I really good enough’?
Don’t be held back by these situations. The mistake here is not yours. It is theirs. The ‘Demanding’ people don’t respect and value the efforts we make.
17. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
Don’t let other people decide or judge or tell your worth.
This is a key reason why you and I feel we are not good enough in many situations.
Don’t let such people get to you.
18. Take Self-Care
Dress confidently.
Always make eye contact.
Smile confidently.
Use appreciative words to yourself like ‘I can do this,’ ‘I did a good job,’ ‘well done’, ‘that was good.’
Be kind, firm, confident, and compassionate.
Take care of your body language.
Stay fit. Eat healthily.
Pursue a hobby. Do things you like.
These are positive practices you can bring in your life.
The more positive you feel from the inside and outside, the more confident you become. You easily overcome the feeling of ‘I am not good enough’.
19. Stop Over-Thinking:
Every time we overthink, you know where we end up?
We end up having feelings like disappointment, not good enough, not better enough, what if it happens, what if it goes bad, it is not sufficient; it is worrying, etc.
When you stop overthinking, you can create a good headspace to think, calmly, and productive. The broken confidence, the doubts, and what-ifs will fade. It becomes easy to get over the ‘I am not good enough’ attitude.
20. You made it to date, do you agree?
Ups and downs would have bumped into your life.
Guess what! You made it this far despite your ‘am I enough’ feeling. Cheers to you to made this far.
Take care of a few things we mentioned above to overcome the inadequate feeling.
You are good to go for the coming miles in life!
Summary:
The 20 ways to overcome the feeling of ‘I am not good enough’ is more of a kick-starter for you. Contemplate over the thoughts we shared here.
Louis L. Hay says,
“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”
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Unearth the power of a determined spirit that is unstoppable. Explore how determination propels individuals to overcome obstacles and achieve greatness.
“A Determined Spirit is Unstoppable.”- Lailah Gifty Akita
Inventions and discoveries are the result of determined efforts. Lifesaving technologies that we see today are the result of determined efforts by someone.
Achievers whom we see in front of us are highly determined and strong-willed individuals. The fact is, a determined spirit is unstoppable. Throw them any obstacle, and they keep pushing it aside. They keep going.
People who are determined know how focused they can get on finishing a task. Energy and effort will never be wasted when there’s a strong determination. And Determination is not being stubborn. It’s a strong, positive resolve to follow your dreams.
Determination is not just for the big things in life. For instance, take our daily. Consider ‘waking up early ‘to be productive, ‘making healthy food choices,’ and everything related to your wellness.
It all needs some kind of determination to practice every day. We can see people pursuing what they like even when the world around them disagrees. They do it because they are determined.
The point here is that a determined spirit never fails and never stops. With a clear goal in hand, people become determined to achieve it.
Is determination only about achieving goals? The answer is ‘No’. Determination is in everything. To be productive, polite, helpful, and supportive are a few ways people have determination.
Determination is good. Make sure it doesn’t cross the line and become an obsession. The determined spirit will need more positivity. Determination in life mends success and achievement.
“Treat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are.”
- Roy T Bennett, The Light in the Heart
We remember people we meet in the walks of our life for two reasons. Either they were good to us or they were bad to us. In the long run of life, we ignore or forget the bad ones. But, we will never forget the ones who did us good. Likewise, we will never forget the ones who made us feel good. Just a random act of kindness from a stranger could last a lifetime. It invokes wonderful memories and positivity every time we think about it.
A world-class achiever can just go down to the ground within a matter of one act of impoliteness. People who treat their fellow people with politeness and kindness prevail in time. You don’t have to be remembered for success, money, social status and other premium privileges. Be remembered for your good. That’s what matters the most. Everything else falls in line when you treat people with respect, politeness, and kindness.
Another thing about life is, People always remember how you treat them. One simple act of kindness that you could do can change a person’s life. Always treat people well. It doesn’t matter whether they deserve it or not, you treat them well. It shows your character.
It hurts when someone treats us impolitely. Let’s not give it back. Let’s not make people feel how we once felt due to impoliteness. Therein lays our character. Let’s treat people with respect, kindness, and politeness not because they are nice people. Let’s do it because we are nice people.
“I have never in my life learned anything from any man who agreed with me.”
- Dudley Field Malone
Life is not about surrounding yourself with people who agree with you all the time. You never learn if folks around you keep harmonizing with whatever you do. You need to have people who can stand up to you when you do wrong. Only you can make this possible.
First, make yourself approachable. It helps people around you to express what they feel. It’s easy to gain genuine views of what’s going on around you.
Second, listen. Listen when people say you are wrong. Listen when people don’t agree with you. It’s a healthy space to learn what’s happening. Genuine people will not hesitate to point the mistakes when you listen. They don’t sugar-coat or brown-nose. It gives a space for you to overcome the mistakes further. Same way, while arguing, you can get to know what’s good on the other side that you couldn’t see. If people keep agreeing with you all the time, have care. Either they want you down or they are afraid of you.
Good Learning in life becomes meaningless when people agree with everything you do or say. There’s nothing much left to learn when you think you are right all the time. Don’t be.
You need to be challenged by the people around you. It’s important to have healthy conversations and arguments to learn about different perspectives. You never gain anything in life when all you have is people who say “Yes” to you all the time.
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“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that but, the really great make you feel that you too, can become great.” - Mark Twain
It’s a wonderful quote to live by. Let go of all the negative people in your life. At least, make sure they don’t influence you in any way possible. You can see a big difference in your life. The next ones to eventually avoid in life are those who keep belittling you.
The act of Demeaning people is a bad personality trait. It’s better to say nothing than say something demeaning or belittling.
People who belittle other’s ambition, dreams, characters, and goals forget one thing. Their behavior is affecting people mentally to a big extent. That too, the ones who have difficulty in handling emotions will find belittling to be a great personal defect.
It becomes hard for them to come out of it. To come out of this influence and achieve the dreams that you had is a big success.
Our life is filled with good and bad people. Especially, the ones who demean others are often found in all spaces of our life.
Be it professional or personal life, small people like them are unavoidable. Be with people who value your dreams and goals.
Great people will support you; encourage you to do more instead of demeaning. Be with people who make you feel great. Surround yourself with people who lift others as they lift themselves.
“Challenges are what makes life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”
- Joshua. J. Marine
When asked how they want their life to be, the answer would be happy and peaceful including me. Is that it? Just a happy life is sufficient? Well, not really. Life also feels the same way. Life hits us with bricks and throws us puzzles when we least expect it. Life without challenges is kind of boring don’t you think!
Straight lines are not as exciting as curved artistic lines. Life is the same too. You need challenges in life. A difficult and challenging time in life has made people realize their true potential. We know how beautiful a diamond is right? In reality, it’s just a piece of carbon that survived under heavy pressure. We are like that too.
Every challenge we face and every difficulty we go through is what makes us strong and interesting. When faced with a challenge, our mind works like never before. It keeps looking for solutions and ideas to overcome the challenge.
Clarity comes concerning what’s good, & what’s bad. Same way, separating ‘right from wrong’, ‘need and want’ becomes clear when you are going through challenges and difficulties in life. When you overcome your challenges, you get a sense of content that no money and success can bring you. Overcoming difficulties will bring a self-trust and self-confidence.
Accept what life throws even it is unacceptable. Take it as a challenge. I know it’s easier said than done. But, when you overcome it, you can see how interesting & meaningful your life can be.
“Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it.”
- Joe Clark
Don’t take your defeats personally. Don’t swallow it. Take the lesson, learn the mistakes, and let it go. Your Defeat will only look like experience now. Else, if you take your defeat personally, your ‘will’ breaks down completely. Taking Defeats to the core has made many people pull off from their dreams. People don’t realize that success could be just one step ahead after all these failures and defeats. I also understand how defeats could be. It’s hard to overcome. The next thing to do will be unclear. That’s why the defeat tastes bitter unless you don’t swallow it.
Have you analyzed how taking defeats personally have hindered you in multiple ways? It will break your will. You could feel like every eye is on you. Ideas of ‘what went wrong,’ ‘where did I lose it’ will not be on your mind. Instead, it brings the feeling of fear, embarrassment, and guilt.
Most importantly, the efforts you made so far will not come to your thoughts. Only the failures will be on the mind. Step away from it. Take some time to recover from the defeat you had in life. Understand that the time you take should reflect on what went wrong. Not in taking your failures to your core.
Everything depends upon how you take it in life. Consider your failures and defeats as just another stepping stone, and keep going. You are very near to success. On the contrary, if you take defeats personally, it will feel like forever to get out. Don’t take your defeats. But, take your time to get in terms with it.
“The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength not a lack of knowledge but rather a lack of will.”
- Vince Lombardi
Take every book that you know that talks about successful people. Read every story that you could gather about achievers and performers.
What do you see?
Not all are genius. But still, there is one thing common in every story and every book. It is their ‘Strong Will’. They keep their ‘Will’ up with whatever it takes and never let it down. With every test, they made their will stronger than ever. This is the key to success in everything.
The quote here is a wonderful detail about success and motivation for us. Don’t worry about knowledge or genius levels. Success takes more than that. True success comes with a strong will. If you have a strong will towards achieving your dreams and following your passion, nothing can stop you.
Questions like ‘Why everyone couldn’t achieve success?’, ‘Where people lag?’ comes. Lack of will is where people struggle to get up and do things. Moreover, success has a different scale for everyone.
In the end, if we do what makes us happy, it’s a big success. Whatever you feel like a success, it only needs determination and will to get. Unless there is a strong will, every attempt to get up after you fail will be absent.
Even to bring a simple lifestyle change and healthy habit, you need the will to do it every day. Imagine the level of willpower it takes to achieve huge success.
Successful people have a strong will. With others, the difference is the lack of will. Don’t let your will down amidst what life throws at you.
Read the quote "Luck is the dividend of sweat" and learn its significance in embracing hard work and seizing opportunities. Experinec the power of determination and effort.
“Luck is the dividend of sweat. The more you sweat, the luckier you get.” - Ray Kroc
Luck favors efforts. Luck favors the brave. Looking for luck or waiting for luck will take forever. Instead, if you take a step forward in life with all your efforts, you will know what you need.
There is one undeniable fact though. The harder you work the more luck you seem to have. Maybe there is a thing called luck. But how far can it take us is a big question.
Let’s think about it this way.
Imagine there’s a door. It opens to a ‘good life & successful life’. Some people walk to get to the door. Let’s say people who believe in luck could think that they got to the door quickly. But, the buck stops there.
To open the doorknob, you need to give your effort. Luck’s not going to do it for you. Life is the same. To unlock life, you need to bring hard work and the best of your efforts.
You need your efforts to walk past the door. Hard work and efforts will pave the way inside the door. As the quote says, the more you sweat the luckier you get. This luck stays with you for on and on. Also, if we see, the ones who are brave enough to pursue their dreams get luckier in every step they take.
No offense to luck. But, true luck seems to be a product of sweat and effort. Finally, you know what; Luck often disguises itself in your hard work. Think. You’ll realize this for a fact.
“When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard’, I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’.
- Sydney Harris
If you think you are the one with problems, you better think again. Everyone you see has their battles to face every single day. Take a step back and see for yourself.
You’ll know that people who are less fortunate than you are more here. Problems that we only thought could happen in a movie plot, could have already happened to someone. We tend to blame life for many things happening around us and for us.
In reality, we keep forgetting that every good and bad start from us. It becomes easy to blame life and say it’s hard. When it comes to the question of ‘compared to what?’ there’s a pause from us. Life is not as hard as we think.
When compared to troubles people face to make their ends meet for the day, life is not hard for us. When compared to those who have challenges to face physically, life is not hard on us. From rags to riches, life treats us all the same. Life gives ups and downs.
The challenge it throws us can make and break us. Those who have nothing are happy and those who have everything are unhappy. Successful people today were all broken by life yesterday. Yet, they are here inspiring people around them.
If all those achievers thought ‘Life’s hard’, they wouldn’t be where they are now. Life’s not a bed of roses. Same time, life is not a bed of stones too.
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the one’s you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover.”
-Mark Twain
If you don’t do things that you like, or if you don’t pursue what your heart says, you will feel incomplete. The regret you will bring to yourself could be huge. Don’t allow for it. Rather than thinking about what you did, your mind will keep thinking about ‘I wish I could have done it’.
If you have a dream, don’t hesitate to take the first step towards it. Sometimes, we will not be in a luxury to pursue. Obligations and commitments are realities standing before us. Taking care of them will be our priority. But, to balance and overcome everything to pursue what you dream is a great thing.
Indeed, it’s a life’s biggest deal if you ask me. Not just dreams. Starting from conveying ‘sorry’, ‘appreciations’, ‘thanks’ to people, we tend to go in a hurry forgetting it. When we sit back relaxed, our time could have been lost already. Thoughts of ‘I wish I could have spoken earlier’, ‘I wish I could have apologized earlier’, ‘I wish I have taken the risk’ brings more regret and disappointment to us.
For some people, the hesitation of ‘what if everything goes wrong’, ‘what if it fails’ stops them. Let me say a word. If there’s one thing that you don’t want to have in life, it is the ‘Regret’. Don’t end up feeling disappointed about things you didn’t do or could have done. It is better to face failures, risks, and challenges instead of regretting doing nothing.
1. Become a Volunteer
Turning into a volunteer for a reason you have faith in can give indistinguishable favorable circumstances from taking a class — meeting others, being part of a group, making new practices — and also brings the advantages of altruism, and can help you find more purpose in your life, both of which can bring bigger happiness and life achievement, as well as reduce loneliness.
In addition, working with others who have less can assist you to feel a more mysterious sense of thanks for what you have in your own life.
2. Find Support On the Internet
Because loneliness is a somewhat popular issue, there are many personalities online who are looking for people to connect with.
You do have to be suspicious of whom you meet over the internet (and, obviously, don’t give out any personal data like your bank account number, etc), but you can find a real guide, connection, and lasting attachments from people you meet online.
3. Increase Strength Of Existing Relationships
You reasonably already have people in your life that you could get to know properly or relationships with a family that could be increased. Provided that this is true, why not call companions all the more regularly, go out with them extra, and find other ways to enjoy your current relationships and increase bonds?
4. See a Therapist
A study has shown that loneliness and depressive symptoms can act in a synergistic impact to decrease well-being, meaning the more lonely you are, the sadder you feel, and vice versa.
1. Politeness goes a long way.
“There’s no one here but us roasters.” This is one of my preferred lines from the book by Thaddeus Golas. Beneath the deep facades of the high fliers are the same set of emotions we all are born with. Celebrities experience from stage fear and sadness too.
You have the ability to offer loving kindness and humanity of the soul to all you come into association with. It isn't instinctual to be caring for outsiders or individuals who frighten you. Be that as it may, it is a decision. It is a decision that Jesus and Gandhi utilized deliberately. And in the long run, it is a champion choice. The choice, being mean or selfish with those you don’t know well, can get you a reputation as a Scrooge.
2. Be persistent even if a distinct group does seem to be a dead-end for you, try another.
Everyone should try six distinctive groups to find one that suits you best. If you are determined, challenging the assuming and feelings that tell you to give up and leave yourself to a life of loneliness, and showing up and being interested and helpful to others and more and more groups, the chances are in your support.
3. Join a Class
Whether it’s an art class, a workout class, or a class at your local town college, joining a class automatically opens you to a group of people who share at least one of your interests.
It can also give a sense of relating that comes with being part of a group. This can excite creativity, give you something to look forward to during the day, and help to decrease loneliness.
1. Find there many others like you.
Nowadays there are more devices than ever before to find out where the knitters, hikers or kiteboarders are meeting so that you can get together with those who distribute your interests. This makes it more easygoing to know groups with which you will have something in general, a natural basis for starting a friendship.
2. Regularly show up when meeting up with others.
You don’t have to run for director of the knitters' society at your first meeting. But you do have to show up. I have been telling others to exercise yoga for 20 years and ensuring I would do it myself for just as long, but besides the occasional coincidental yoga offering at a retreat, I didn’t take the difficulty of finding a class I could attend daily until a month ago. Now I am liking it and it was not that difficult. I have put a note in my phone to retire from the procrastinator’s society.
3. Be interested, but don’t expect fulfillment or praise.
Each time you show up is an analysis, a micro-adventure in social bonding. If you are curious about and excited about others, they will be attracted to you because you are giving them notice. So you will get recognition in return. Interest in others also takes your focus away from those uncomfortable feelings that tend to make you hide and lower.
1. Realize that isolation is a feeling, not a truth.
When you seem lonely, it is because something has begun memory of that feeling, not because you are in reality, hidden and alone. The brain is created to pay consideration to pain and risk, and that involves painful scary feelings; therefore loneliness gets our consideration.
But then the brain attempts to make sense of the feeling.
Why am I sensing this way?
Is it because nobody loves me?
Because I am a sufferer? Because they are all mean?
Opinions about why you are feeling lonely can become frustrated with facts. Then it becomes a bigger difficulty so just understand that you are having this feeling and accept it without exaggerating.
2. Move out because loneliness is distasteful and can distract you into thinking that you are a loser, an outcast.
You might respond by withdrawing into yourself, your thoughts, and your lonely feelings and this is not essential. At its best, the awareness of loneliness might encourage us to reach out and improve friendships, which is the best activity to perform you are sad and alone.
When you are a child and your sorrow causes you to cry, you may extract a comforting response from others. If you’re a grown-up, not so much.
3. Get a Pet at your home
Pets — mainly dogs and cats — carry so many advantages, and stopping loneliness is one of them. Protecting a pet combines the benefits of altruism and friendship, and leaves you with various loneliness-fighters.
It can attach you with other community — walking a dog opens you up to a people of other dog-walkers, and a cute dog on a leash tends to be a people attraction. Additionally, pets provide complete love, which can be a great remedy for loneliness.
Practically everyone encounters loneliness from time to time, many people displaying feelings of loneliness around the vacation season, Valentine’s Day, and during times of severe stress. While the quite number of people who undergo loneliness is quite large, individuals don't generally discuss feelings of loneliness. They don't normally have an idea of how to manage these emotions.
16 ways to cope with alone time
1. Realize that isolation is a feeling, not a truth.
2. Move out because loneliness is distasteful and can distract you into thinking that you are a loser, an outcast.
3. Notice your self defeating thoughts.
4. Make a method to fight the mental and emotional practices of loneliness.
5. Concentrate on the demands and feelings of others, the shorter concentration on your lonely thoughts and feelings.
6. Find there many others like you.
7. Regularly show up when meeting up with others.
8. Be interested, but don’t expect fulfillment or praise.
9. Politeness goes a long way.
10. Be persistent even if a distinct group does seem to be a dead-end for you, try another.
11. Join a Class
12. Become a Volunteer
13. Find Support On the Internet
14. Increase Strength Of Existing Relationships
15. Get a Pet at your home
16. See a Therapist
1. Have a mantra throughout everyday life
As indicated by analysis, when you repeat a mantra, it could dispose of your pressure a little bit at a time. One mantra thought is "unwind, discharge, ease." If you have an inclination that you're worried effectively, simply rehash that mantra. In some cases, you have to urge yourself up to be alright.
2. Spend time with yourself
It’s okay to make time for yourself. You can truly relax and rest whenever you’re alone. It'll permit you the opportunity to be with your internal identity and at whatever point you sense that you're stuck it's a lot simpler for you to realize out.
3. Re-read the book that once motivated you
Books could take care of your spirit easily. In the event that you have an individual book that you haven't re-read at this point, take every chance you have to read it again. Stories that could inspire you can restore your optimistic self.
1. Call your brother or sister randomly
It doesn't make a difference on the off chance that you were a lot of like Tom and Jerry when you were still children. What esteems right presently is that you know about your siblings.
Siblings are a couple of the most faithful companions you'll ever have in your life. They may be the most exceedingly awful with regards to discovering deficiencies in you, however, consistently recall that they're simply doing that to your benefit.
2. Brainstorm an answer for your issues
Discover the base of what's not causing you to feel great. Stress can be found in your environment. It might be your disturbing neighbor or your friend. Figure out how you can leave negativity behind you and move forward, whatever that means for your situation.
3. Sleep before your regular time
Getting enough sleep can help reduce stress. Before sleeping, attempt to clear your mind first, perhaps through reflection, and dispose of every one of those annoying issues so you will have the option to lay down effortlessly even only for a night.
4. Take a break and find time for yourself
After all the tasks that you’ve finished, it’s great to make time for yourself. If you can, plan a trip.
5. Stop comparing yourself with others
There are things that you can do however your counterparts couldn't do. That is how reasonable life. You have to have another standpoint throughout everyday life If you think that other people are better than you.
6. Listen to your much-loved songs
Do you want to listen to those 90’s songs? You can do anything you need. On the off chance that you believe you're excessively old, simply recall that you'll get more established on the off chance that you'll simply let your pressure ruin you.
1. Compose empowering words for yourself
Have a journal for yourself. Record all the beneficial things that transpired on a specific day. In this journal, avoid taking note of the sad experiences, just focus on the good. Each time you find a good pace with what the universe is providing for you, read the diary to advise you that it's only an awful day, not an awful life.
2. Shading or Cut your hair with any style you need
Presently is a satisfactory time for you to get that hairstyle that you truly like. It doesn't make a difference if others won't care for it or you'll be punished for it. It's your life, in any case.
3. Watch your preferred film alone
So imagine a scenario where you will re-watch that old flicks. So what if you’ll sing along with Taylor Swift’s Songs? Old movies make you retain your childhood and all the laughter that you had while growing up.
4. Buy your venerated image's product
How about we let it out, pretty much all of us is a follower of somebody. Purchase the most recent collection of your preferred craftsman or buy that shirt to rep them.
5. Re-associate with your old companions
Reminiscing is such a good feeling. Now because of social media, it’s easier than ever for us to talk with our childhood friends. Message your oldest best friend and ask if it’s okay for the two of you to meet up for lunch.
6. For a day, Get yourself free from all gadgets
As indicated by an inspection, cell phones can expand feelings of anxiety. There's probably never a day that you're not holding your phone. Help yourself out and be phoneless for a day. Have a calm life away from your screens occasionally.
1. Watch your plans
Your reasoning will never be 100 percent positive. You should figure out how to disregard the negative thoughts and stay open to other ideas that will help you move in a positive direction. Begin recognizing negative thoughts and utilize your mind to overcome them.
2. Summon the quality you have inside
Learn to approach and direct your strengths to the highest good for all concerned. Believe that your intelligence and strength can help you deal with anything. Remember that you have survived worse.
3. Learn to love and care yourself
Your life is not scripted, You do not have to be who you are today. Changing how you feel about yourself means gathering some new tools, creating a strategy, creating a strategy, and making yourself into the person you want to be. A good way to begin is to stop doing things that hurt.
4. Try not to need excessively
Determination can be a powerful motivating tool, but wanting something an excess of can be extremely painful and extravagant, so don't maintain an unsustainable lifestyle or desire the unattainable. Look for your craving, however, keep your honesty.
5. Don't get offended
It is wise to be unsentimental about critical comments. Figure out how to react as opposed to responding, and don't show your anger. Recognize that disappointment is part of life. Even the most successful people have to tackle failure, but they've mastered how to use it to get to the next level of life. The method is to channelize your emotions, then take some sort of movement.
6. Manage your feelings of fear
Getting control over your fear makes you stronger. It assists with understanding and concedes your feelings of dread. At that point, you can kick them to the check.
1. Cry
Tears indicate the body to discharge endorphins or "feel-better" hormones to show a feeling of calm and prosperity. It not only allows your body to discharge stress hormones but at the top of an honest cry, the body assumes a calmer state with a lower heart and breathing rate. Engage in beneficial crying. This is crying that permits you to release stress and bottled up emotions and doesn't interfere together with your daily functioning.
If you seem that your crying is interfering with your work or home life or you cannot control it or how often you cry, this may be an indication of a bigger problem, like depression or an anxiety-related condition. Consider seeing someone like a therapist or counselor who can encourage you methods to control crying that is interfering with your day by day working.
2. Take time to breathe deeply
Taking deep breaths can help you begin to feel better. Deep breathing enhances oxygen supply everywhere in the body, which can help to unwind muscles and decrease your blood pressure when you’re upset or stressed. Deep breathing produces a calming effect by activating your parasympathetic nervous system.
3. Keep moving
Always remember that most extenuating circumstances are temporary, don’t let life's changes throw you off track. Increase greater clarity by continuing through to the end and diverting your energy a privilege and positive way.
4. Trust yourself
Believe in yourself, no matter what, and you'll grow from the experience. Give yourself a brief period and have tolerance.
5. Become a friend of life
Remember that the world does not punish you. You do that to yourself. Learning to focus in another direction or on other opportunities can give you some perspective.
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