MAKE YOUR LUCK:
If you think that you will really really want something and it will eventually happen in your life, then you are probably wrong. If you are having problems in your life and you think that things are not in the right place, then you should try to be a better version of yours than the last one.
There are no magic tricks that could make things happen out of sudden — figuring out that success is not about luck. A person has to go beyond his comfort zone to be successful. Take a single step forward in a moving direction along the right path of your life.
Every day of your life, always finds some people to drag you down and some other people who continuously motivate you to work more and to live more. It is upon you about how you choose to be surrounded by the people who carry positive Vibes along with them. When you are surrounded by people who drive you and inspire you, then you have no way other than succeeding in your life.
FIND A SOLUTION:
Work on your problem-solving skills instead of just complaining about the problems. Also, don’t just rely on others to come up with solutions. You should always plan a step ahead. Whenever you think that a problem can arise, you analyze the situation to the core and try to be focused on the solution.
Learn how to prioritize important things in your life. If you are in the office, to spend your time and energy to work. Also, when you are enjoying your own space with your family, don’t let work stress come in-between.
GAIN CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS:
Keep your work and personal life separate. Do not let your emotions mix them up. Sometimes we all face a situation where we could not work as much as we want to because of our emotional state. Try to gain control over your emotions. So you can equally work as well as you can give your time to your emotional aspect.
Success is not getting everything in the right place. It is more like a journey. You learn lots of new things along the journey of your success — all you need to take one step forward and keep moving. If you think you are successful today and stop progressing, then it is not success anymore. Success is about how you improve and grow with each passing day. Consistency is the only thing that’s called a success. Keep moving.
ONE STEP AT A TIME:
If you are in a worse position in your life and you think that it’s the dead-end for you. Then, my dear, I want to tell you that it’s not. When you feel like the road is closed all you need is to take one single step towards the closed door. You are most likely to see that the closed-door is moving backward, and you find a long way to go. Be brave and take one more step.
"The road to success and the road to failure are almost exactly the same." -- Colin R. Davis
If you earn $10,000 in a month and you want to be a Billionaire in one year, there is more likely that you are going to fail in this goal. Instead of it, if you plan to earn double your current money by the end of a year, then you probably can achieve that goal.
KEEP THINGS SMALL AND SIMPLE:
You can’t be in everyone’s good book, and you can’t change your life overnight. Know the things that you can’t do. This is the first step towards your success. When you know that you can’t do anything, then you will find new ways to do other things. It will eventually help you to grow in life. That’s why keeping it simple is important.
Proactivity is a relatively new field where the dimension is continuously changing. So stating a perfect and concise definition is somehow not possible.
But some key features define what should be called as being Proactive.
Being ready for our future problem and acting in advance to prevent any damage from happening is the most important primary key points of being Proactive.
Taking control in hand and anticipating the future come under the most generalizing conceptual definition of being proactive.
- In short, being a proactive person is a mix of hustle and problem-solving. I have broken it down into eight key points.
- It's All About You.
- Be Solution-Focused.
- Be Accountable.
- Use “SMART” Goals.
- Make Your Own Luck.
- Be Consistent.
- Find the Right People.
Here I have listed A FEW POINTS ABOUT HOW YOU CAN BE PROACTIVE IN YOUR LIFE AND YOUR WORK.
KEEP THINGS SMALL AND SIMPLE
ONE STEP AT A TIME
LET YOUR WORK SPEAKS
BE A TEAM WORKER
GAIN CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS
MAKE YOUR LUCK
FIND A SOLUTION
By nature, we tend to speak our own language. Whatever makes us feel loved is what we do for the other person. But if it is not his/her language, it will not mean to them what it means to us. - Gary Chapman, Things I wish I knew before I got married