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Positive self-talk has a big influence on the way we think, on the way we respond to certain life situations and overall decides the quality of our life.


Positive thinking can be an effective method to deal with stress and related issues. Having a positive outlook on life is sure to give you many health benefits.


Research suggests that optimists have a greater quality of life. If you feel you have very negative self-talk and would want to change it into the positive self-talk,  then start with changing your inner dialogues. It will improve your health and make you a positive person altogether. And who doesn’t love being with a positive person?


Be around happy and positive people, find humor in every situation, try not to be over-critical about every situation, keep your feelings in check and transition slowly into a positive self-talk mode. Give your positive and encouraging affirmations and never let yourself down under any circumstances.

If you don’t have control over your feelings, it will be others who will play around with it which can create quite a havoc. Be patient, be kind, be considerate, and eventually everything will fall into place. 

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GET QUALITY SLEEP

 

Stress and sleep go hand in hand. The amount of sleep you get has a great effect on your mood patterns. If you do not get the required amount of sleep, it takes a toll on your body and mind. Your stress levels will be magnified, and your moods will be affected, eventually so will be your day. Try to get a minimum of 8 hours of sleep daily to get a new head start to a new day.


The more refreshed you feel, the productive your day will turn out to be. Lack of sleep can also affect your physical and mental health. Try to get a good night’s sleep to be positive and improve the quality of your life.  

1. Notice your self defeating thoughts.  


We often produce self-centered stories to explain our feelings when we are growing, it is not unusual for children to know that there is something wrong with them if they are not happy. If they are lonely and sad, children may feel others don’t like them when this is unusually the case.




Sufferers of bullying may well have followers and friends, but they often aren’t aware of it because the guilt and loneliness get more notice. Constant assuming about social status resumes into adulthood, and if you are looking for proof that the world sucks, you can generally discover it.


2. Make a method to fight the mental and emotional practices of loneliness. 


If you recognize you are dealing with an emotional habit, you can make a strategy to deal with loneliness. Since healthy communication with friends is good, make some attempt to reach out to others, to start communication and face time even when your loneliness and sadness are telling you not to.

Yes, it is work, but it is important, just like exercising is important even when you are feeling exhausted or tired.


3. Concentrate on the demands and feelings of others, the shorter concentration on your lonely thoughts and feelings.

I can walk down the road thinking about myself, my loneliness and the hopelessness of it all, watching at the sidewalk and sighing to myself. Or I can walk down the street thankful for the variety of individuals, I get to share walkway with, quietly wishing them great wellbeing and great riches, and smiling at every individual I meet. The following is more fun, even though I sometimes have to tell myself to do it on purpose.

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Words have the power to change people. Inspiring speeches have made thousands of people move towards a single vision. Motivating words have built people. A bit of simple advice has changed people’s lives in a positive perspective. Words are powerful enough to make or break a person for life. Through this post, we like to discuss one piece of advice on every walks of like that has impacted and changed life significantly.

“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, & Success achieved” – HELEN KELLER


“Facing it! Always, Facing It! That’s the way to Get Through” – Joseph Conrad

There are wonderful words said by inspiring and charismatic personalities across the globe. Covering every walks of life and every situation, we have shared here our personal picks.

The simple pieces of advice that we quoted here has positively changed our lives. It had a tremendous impact on shifting our lives for the better. We hope you liked our collection of simple advice we shared here.

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We have a professional space and a personal space. Sometimes, advice can be common to both. But most often, you need different approaches to handle them both. Take a look!


1.) When it comes to bringing positivity, follow this one piece of simple advice that will change the way you think. It is:


“I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty Feet” – MK GANDHI


2.) Leading a successful happy life, follow these pieces of advice:


“Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you want to become. Everything else is secondary” – STEVE JOBS.


“A Good Head & a Good Heart are Always a formidable combination” – NELSON MANDELA


3.) When it Comes to Work, keep the following pieces of advice that could change your work life for better:


“Choose a Job you Love, and you don’t have to work a day in your life” – CONFUCIUS


“What you Do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you SAY” – RALPH WALDO EMERSON


“Being Ignorant is not a shame but Unwilling to Learn is” – BENJAMIN FRANKLIN


4.)  When it comes to growing in life, you need character and courage. Take the following pieces of simple advice below and we’re sure it could change your life for the better. They are:


“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, & Success achieved” – HELEN KELLER


“Facing it! Always, Facing It! That’s the way to Get Through” – Joseph Conrad


5.)  During your Difficult times, remember the simple advice down below. The advice will definitely change your life for the good.


“These pains you feel are messengers. Listen to Them” – RUMI


“For one moment, quit being sad. Hear Blessings dropping their Blossoms around you” – RUMI

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Everyone wants to get huge success in their life, and I am sure you are also one. So, here I have shared 4 the best good habits Which I believe strongly to have in you.


This list of good habits can serve you well in every field, whether you are a mother, businessman, working woman, and student. 


1.  Eat a Rich Diet

Just like our body, the brain needs healthy food to perform well in every task. So, don't let your stomach empty while going to your office, school, and classes. Learn to eat the right diet in the morning and stay away from health issues. 


2. Do Exercise

For better body posture and keeping your face glowing, it is a must to adopt the habit of doing regular exercise. With this, you can enjoy the quality of life. 


3. Never Say NO

To enjoy success, learn to say YES, it doesn't matter how hard the situation is. Fight for yourself, and remember winners never quit. 


4.  Stay Hygienic

Getting up early in the morning, brushing teeth twice a day, and bathing regularly not only keeps you healthy but make you smarter and sharper with your personality. That's the key to get success. 

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A positive attitude leads to happiness and success and can change your whole life. If you look at the bright side of life, your whole life becomes filled with light. This light affects not only you and the way you look at the world, but it also affects your environment and the people around you.


If this attitude is strong enough, it becomes contagious. It's as if you radiate light around you.

  • It helps you achieve goals and attain success.
  • It brings more happiness into your life.
  • It produces more energy.
  • Positive attitude increases your faith in your abilities, and brings hope for a brighter future.
  • You become able to inspire and motivate yourself and others.
  • You encounter fewer obstacles and difficulties in your daily life.
  • You get more respect and love from people.
  • Life smiles at you.

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With a positive attitude, you see the bright side of life, become optimistic, and expect the best to happen. It is certainly a state of mind that is well worth developing.

Positive attitude manifests in the following ways:

  • Positive thinking.
  • Constructive thinking.
  • Creative thinking.
  • Optimism.
  • Motivation and energy to do things and accomplish goals.
  • An attitude of happiness.

A positive frame of mind can help you in many ways, such as:

  • Expecting success and not a failure.
  • Making you feel inspired.
  • It gives you the strength not to give up if you encounter obstacles on your way.
  • It makes you look at failure and problems as blessings in disguise.
  • Believing in yourself and in your abilities.
  • It enables you to show self-esteem and confidence.
  • You look for solutions, instead of dwelling on problems.
  • You see and recognize opportunities.

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Here are the 6 power-packed character traits you will develop when you choose to be positive. 

Character trait 1: Decisiveness

Character trait 2: Courage

Character trait 3: Responsibility

Character trait 4: Persistence

Character trait 5: Solution-focused

Character trait 6: Adaptability  

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What Does a Positive Attitude Mean?

Here are a few definitions:

A positive attitude is a state of mind that envisions and expects favorable results.

The willingness to try doing new things

The belief that everything would turn all right

It is an attitude that helps you see the good in people.

It is a mental attitude that sees the good and the accomplishments in your life, rather than the negative and the failures.

A positive attitude is a mindset that helps you see and recognize opportunities.

A positive attitude means positive thinking

It is optimism and maintaining a positive mindset

It is a mental attitude that focuses on the bright side of life

It is a mindset that uses the words “I can” and “it is possible.” 

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12 things you can do to improve your well-being. These 12 activities include:


1. Being kind to yourself

2. Exercise regularly

3. Take up a hobby and/or learn a new skill

4. Have some fun and/or be creative

5. Help others

6. Relax

7. Eat healthily

8. Balance sleep

9. Connect with others

10. Beware drink and drugs

11. See the bigger picture

12. Accepting: “It is as it is” 

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A few activities to build positive mindset skills such as


1. Listen to upbeat music.

2. Travel, even if it’s not very far—the point is to interact with different people and get to know other cultures.

3. Eat healthy foods.

4. Be thankful and cultivate gratitude.

5. Journal and/or use a notebook to write things down—especially positive things.

6. Breathe mindfully and deeply.

7. Use positive words and avoid phrases like “I can’t” and “I won’t.”

8. Practice positive affirmations or mantras.

9. Try the Best Possible Self exercise (imagine yourself in your best possible future, and write about it).

10. Volunteer and commit your time and efforts to helping others.

11. Take control of the things you can, and accept the things you can’t.

12. Remind yourself “Never a failure, always a lesson;” make every failure a learning opportunity.

13. Try the mirror technique—say something positive about yourself (and truly mean it) every time you see yourself in the mirror.

14. Socialize and spend time with others, including family, friends, your spouse or significant other, and new friends or acquaintances.

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1. Listen to your favorite music—it’s that easy! Music has a fairly unique ability to put you in a positive state of mind.


2. Express your thankfulness and gratitude for all the good things in your life. Appreciate them, and write them down to help you remember.


3. Remember to breathe. Breathe deeply, slowly, and mindfully to transport your mind to a positive, calm place.


4. Don’t live according to a label—labels come from others, not from yourself, and you are so much more than a simple label could ever represent.


5. Check your internal dialogue, and challenge that critical inner voice to make room for happiness.


6. Engage in positive activities like meditation, yoga, hiking, or whatever other activity you enjoy.


7. Take back control of the things you can change—and put in the effort required to actually change—but learn to accept the things you cannot change.


8. Go easy on yourself. Don’t kick yourself when you’re down; everyone fails, and it doesn’t mean you’re not good enough.


9. Pay attention to your diet, and ensure that you eat healthy food that will contribute to a healthy and positive mind.


10 Embrace change—it’s happening whether we want it to or not, so it’s best to embrace it. Make an effort to step outside of your comfort zone.

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11 techniques from Dr. Tchiki Davis (2018) can also help you adopt a more positive attitude:


1. Ask yourself, “Do I think positively?” Take a test or quiz on positivity to see where you stand.


2. Strengthen your memory for positive information by using positive words more often.


3. Strengthen your brain’s ability to work with positive information with exercises that involve positive words.


4. Strengthen your brain’s ability to pay attention to the positive by routinely redirecting your focus away from the negative to the positive.


5. Condition yourself to experience random moments of positivity (use classical conditioning on yourself to build positive associations).


6. Think positive—but not too much—and think negative when you need to; sometimes we need to grieve, think about the negative consequences, and use negative emotions to motivate and engage us.


7. Practice gratitude (perhaps with a gratitude journal).


8. Savor the good moments (stop to “smell the roses” and celebrate the positive).


9. Generate positive emotions by watching funny videos


10. Stop minimizing your successes and acknowledge the efforts you put in.


11. Stop all-or-nothing thinking; this cognitive distortion is not in line with reality since things are very rarely “all good” or “all bad.”

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Try these 10 suggestions from Megan Wycklendt (2014) of Fulfillment Daily:


1. Keep a gratitude journal.


2. Reframe your challenges as opportunities for growth.


3. Get good at being rejected—it happens to everyone!


4. Use positive words to describe your life.


5. Replace have with get (e.g., I have to go to work → I get to go to work).


6. Don’t let yourself get dragged down into other people’s complaints.


7. Breathe—consciously, purposefully, and mindfully.


8. Notice the righteous and good in times of tragedy and violence.


9. Have solutions ready when you point out problems.


10. Make someone else smile.

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A successful author, speaker, and coach Brian Tracy positive attitude tips are:

  • Remember that it’s your response that determines the outcome of a situation.
  • Use positive affirmations or phrases to chase off negative thoughts.
  • Find inspirational quotes and messages to bolster your positivity.
  • Decide to be happy by being grateful and assuming the people around you have the best of intentions.
  • Challenge yourself to maintain a positive attitude when something goes wrong—show the world how resilient and positive you are! 
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    Larry Alton from Success.com lists 7 practical tips to help you get more positive:


    1. Start the day with positive affirmations (scroll down to see some example affirmations).


    2. Focus on the good things, however small they are.


    3. Find humor in bad situations.


    4. Turn failures into lessons—and learn from them!


    5. Transform negative self-talk into positive self-talk.


    6. Focus on the present instead of getting mired in the past or losing your way in the future.


    7. Find positive friends, mentors, and co-workers to support and encourage you (2018). 

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    For example, positive attitudes can include: 


    It is looking adversity in the eye… and laughing.


    Getting what you get, and not pitching a fit.


    Enjoying the unexpected, even when it’s not what you wanted originally.


    Motivating those around you with a positive word.


    Using the power of a smile to reverse the tone of a situation.


    Being friendly to those you don’t know.


    It’s getting back up when you fall down. (No matter how many times you fall down.)


    Being a source of energy that lifts those around you.


    Understanding that relationships are more important than material things.


    Being happy even when you have little.


    Having a good time even when you are losing.


    Being happy for someone else’s success.


    Having a positive future vision, no matter how bad your current circumstances.


    Smiling.


    Paying a compliment, even to a total stranger.


    Tell someone you know that they did a great job. (And mean it.)


    Making someone’s day. (Not just a child’s… adult’s like to have their day be special, too!)


    It’s not complaining no matter how unfair things appear to be. (It is a waste of time… instead, do something!)


    Not letting other people’s negativity bring you down.


    Giving more than you expect to get in return.


    Being true to yourself… always (Jarrow, 2012). 

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    There are many traits and characteristics associated with a positive mindset, including:


    Optimism: a willingness to make an effort and take a chance instead of assuming your efforts won’t pay off.


    Acceptance: acknowledging that things don’t always turn out how you want them to, but learning from your mistakes.


    Resilience: bouncing back from adversity, disappointment, and failure instead of giving up.


    Gratitude: actively, continuously appreciating the good things in your life (Blank, 2017).


    Consciousness/Mindfulness: dedicating the mind to conscious awareness and enhancing the ability to focus.


    Integrity: the trait of being honorable, righteous, and straightforward, instead of deceitful and self-serving (Power of Positivity, n.d.). 


    Not only are these characteristics of a positive mindset, but they may also work in the other direction—actively adopting optimism, acceptance, resilience, gratitude, mindfulness, and integrity in your life will help you develop and maintain a positive mindset.

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    We have much more control over adding pleasant experiences in our lives than we often have over preventing stressful ones. With that in mind, here are some simple ways to raise your positivity ratios.


    1. Make a plan

    2. Maintain a gratitude journal

    3. Monitor your mood

    4. Treat yourself

    5. Have some habits

    6. Find some surprises

    7. Use proven standbys