You generally get to know about a person by interacting with him. Though what you communicate clearly matters in understanding about you, it is also pretty important to know that what you do not say also counts a lot.
Many things you do day in and day out without having to communicate in oral or written form end up revealing huge things about your personality. So is the case about others partnering in your relation.
You can assess the real personality of a person, be it your own self, by closely monitoring the habitual tasks and the operational activities of the person. Jotted down below are a few for your ready reference.
✔︎ The money management skills of a person help you understand the person in the first place. Keep an eye on how much the person is spending and on what basket of items. This will tell you whether the person is money-minded or human bond minded.
✔︎ You may like a specific kind of cuisine. You’re eating habits express your approach towards life.
✔︎ The goals you set for self in life and your ability to tackle them tells you how goal-oriented you are.
✔︎ Spending time with oneself is always a good start during the day. How you spend time for yourself and how you freak out on adventurous trips often define your life philosophies.
✔︎ You have to be emotionally balanced. The way you react to a situation instantaneously matters to your emotional well-being.
✔︎ Your time management skills define your lifestyle and the amount of importance and respect you have for yourself and others.
✔︎ The amount of time you spent on unproductive tasks reveals your personality. Your addiction to phones and gadgets also reveals how emotional and insecure you feel.
✔︎ The way you organize your items and work reveals the amount of self-control and self-disciplined you are.
✔︎ You may be capturing a lot of selfies. Your selfie styles reveal how open and social you want to be. It also assesses your ability to work out problems on your own.
✔︎ Your firm and strong handshakes reflect your strong and confident personality. And if your handshake is weak, it indicates you lack confidence and look for easy ways to handle matters.
✔︎ Suppose you have a scheduled meeting or a call or any other actionable for that matter, and you present yourself on time. In that case, it means you are a proactive person, self-driven and self-motivated, and a mentally strong person too.
✔︎ The way to handle and deal with strangers and interact with sub-staff defines your attitude.
✔︎ If you look inside the dish or the drink while having it, it means you are more focused, idealistic, and introspective in nature.
✔︎ If you have the habit of biting nails, or rubbing your skin, or playing around with your hair, it means you are facing the relax-less and tensed state of mind.
✔︎ Your handwriting talks a lot about you. If you apply pressure on pen and paper while writing, it means you are stubborn in nature.
✔︎ If your handwriting is small, you lack confidence and always try to be in the comfort zone, being more of an introvert kind.
✔︎ If the letters in your handwriting are slanted, it means you are always looking for a shoulder to lean on. You are a very emotional and sentimental person and cannot make firm decisions on your own.
✔︎ The more time you spend checking your emails and messages, the more it means that you are trying to boost your mood and feel restless to keep yourself abreast of times.
✔︎ While in a conversation, if you tend to stare at the other person for long, it means you are actually trying to show the dominant nature of yours.
✔︎ If you have the attention to listening and humming to complex music, it means that you are open to new challenges and far more liberal in your approach.
✔︎ The pets you adopt at home, and the way you care for them does matter. If you are taming a dog, it means you are more energetic and outgoing kind. If you are taming a cat, it means you are highly sensitive and introverted.
✔︎ If you always keep talking about yourself, your achievements, your success, your skills, and talents, you are the kind of person who is egoist in nature. You feel on top of the world, irrespective of whether you are treated one of like.
✔︎ If you have the habit of booze, you will be more likely to present your true picture when drunk. Your fake personality is swiped off. You tend to feel relaxed and open out your inner voice, be it on any topic.
✔︎ You can also assess a person in his driving style. If you are a fast driver, you are likely to be more socially active and extroverted. However, if you are keen and driving very carefully, giving your full focus and attention to the driving role, you are more introverted. You may also be facing anxiety problems.
✔︎ Most important of all, your body language and gestures reflect your philosophies, ideology, and lifestyle. By body language, you will also be able to assess if somebody is actually telling the truth or lie.
In a nutshell, you are in a society surrounded by human beings all around. Every human is different from the other in the sense that it makes understanding an individual much difficult. You cannot assess every person with the same unit of measurement.
Hence you have been flashed up with a couple of human habits, basis which you understand and assess the people around you. Understanding a person's philosophies is the key to building a healthy and harmonious relationship now and forever.
The bottom line in getting to know about a person is to understand that action speaks louder than words.