Unconditional love means that we don’t offer them any paybacks or other expectations when we love someone. We do all these things with our hearts to make them happy. We can say our love is unconditional when we accept them the way they are. We can do anything to make them happy or make them feel special. Their special days are important to us. We are there when they need us and many more things which we expect our loved ones to do for us.
One of the most common examples of unconditional love is parents’ love for children. This is the purest unconditional love. As parents didn’t expect anything from their children. Like all these, there are many other relations and relationships where love is unconditional.
10 Ways to love unconditionally
1.Learn to listen.
When we love someone, we need to learn to listen to them. When your loved one is facing tough times, listen to them. It acts as a painkiller to them. Leave all worldly things. If you are bad at consoling, just act normal and sit quietly beside them. Hold them without saying anything. It makes your bond stronger and more reliable to each other.
Unconditional love refers to unconditional listening without interrupting.
2.Understand each other’s love language.
There are many human beings in this universe and have different ways to show their love. Kinds of love languages are Words of acceptance, Gifts, ways of serving, quality time, physical love language. Understanding their love languages helps a lot in understanding them.
For example, some are bad at expressing, but they are good at understanding and best in the way of serving, whereas some are good at understanding and are highly affirmative at physical love but bad at telling by words.
3.Must have deep conversations.
There must be a deep conversation between loved ones. It is like a *must have pill*, which needs to be taken at least once a week. It helps us to survive in this crowded world where there exists someone who can listen to us and ask us about our life.
Sometimes it’s about talking while cuddling in quality time. A general deep conversation is one when we understand someone deeply while talking with them about their life.
4.Non-judging.
We should not judge the people whom we love unconditionally regarding their personality, likes, choices, and dislikes. So, we should respect their choices and also not compare them with others.
Sometimes it becomes crucial for them. We must encourage them throughout.
5.Be proud of them that you have them in your life.
No matter what’s going on in another life, always say to them that you are proud to have them. It will make them feel loved and strong. These thing helps your partner to give ultimate support during difficult times.
6.Put your needs aside.
When we love someone unconditionally, so we keep their happiness and needs as our priority. It means putting their need first all-time even when they don’t do the same. Sometimes we need to sacrifice. We need to lose our precious things or daily routines to see them happy.
7.Do something special for them.
Always try to do something special which makes them happy. For example, when they need your help, help them the way they want. This will make them feel special. Give a time when they needed it the most but can’t say it to you.
8.Give a hug when they need it the most.
This is important sometimes because you can help to keep your partner encouraged and also give them comfort by giving a hug. A simple gesture like giving a hug can help them feel loved during trouble and difficult times. Sometimes being with the person without saying anything is enough to give them support.
9.Unconditional can be Uncomfortable.
Unconditional love can be uncomfortable sometimes. Admit it if you are in any kind of relationship with someone. Doesn’t matter if it is with parents, girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. It becomes uncomfortable sometimes.
It can get moody sometimes, but we should forget to respect the relationship between each other. It is the condition where both have to handle it while holding each other’s hand.
10. Avoid highly matured behavior.
Do not react over matured in front of your loved ones. Because it can’t lead to the way of Unconditional love. It includes a lot of thoughts, anxieties in a relationship. A person needs to think hundred times in front of an over-mature person. So do not be the one in front of your loved ones.
Unconditional love helps us to become expressive in our ways. It activates every part of the brain when it becomes in physical love. It generates love hormones in our body, which burns stress, anxieties, and depression.
Harsh Agarwal
What is unconditional love?
Unconditional love means that we don’t offer them any paybacks or other expectations when we love someone. We do all these things with our hearts to make them happy. We can say our love is unconditional when we accept them the way they are. We can do anything to make them happy or make them feel special. Their special days are important to us. We are there when they need us and many more things which we expect our loved ones to do for us.
One of the most common examples of unconditional love is parents’ love for children. This is the purest unconditional love. As parents didn’t expect anything from their children. Like all these, there are many other relations and relationships where love is unconditional.
10 Ways to love unconditionally
1. Learn to listen.
When we love someone, we need to learn to listen to them. When your loved one is facing tough times, listen to them. It acts as a painkiller to them. Leave all worldly things. If you are bad at consoling, just act normal and sit quietly beside them. Hold them without saying anything. It makes your bond stronger and more reliable to each other.
Unconditional love refers to unconditional listening without interrupting.
2. Understand each other’s love language.
There are many human beings in this universe and have different ways to show their love. Kinds of love languages are Words of acceptance, Gifts, ways of serving, quality time, physical love language. Understanding their love languages helps a lot in understanding them.
For example, some are bad at expressing, but they are good at understanding and best in the way of serving, whereas some are good at understanding and are highly affirmative at physical love but bad at telling by words.
3. Must have deep conversations.
There must be a deep conversation between loved ones. It is like a *must have pill*, which needs to be taken at least once a week. It helps us to survive in this crowded world where there exists someone who can listen to us and ask us about our life.
Sometimes it’s about talking while cuddling in quality time. A general deep conversation is one when we understand someone deeply while talking with them about their life.
4. Non-judging.
We should not judge the people whom we love unconditionally regarding their personality, likes, choices, and dislikes. So, we should respect their choices and also not compare them with others.
Sometimes it becomes crucial for them. We must encourage them throughout.
5. Be proud of them that you have them in your life.
No matter what’s going on in another life, always say to them that you are proud to have them. It will make them feel loved and strong. These thing helps your partner to give ultimate support during difficult times.
6. Put your needs aside.
When we love someone unconditionally, so we keep their happiness and needs as our priority. It means putting their need first all-time even when they don’t do the same. Sometimes we need to sacrifice. We need to lose our precious things or daily routines to see them happy.
7. Do something special for them.
Always try to do something special which makes them happy. For example, when they need your help, help them the way they want. This will make them feel special. Give a time when they needed it the most but can’t say it to you.
8. Give a hug when they need it the most.
This is important sometimes because you can help to keep your partner encouraged and also give them comfort by giving a hug. A simple gesture like giving a hug can help them feel loved during trouble and difficult times. Sometimes being with the person without saying anything is enough to give them support.
9. Unconditional can be Uncomfortable.
Unconditional love can be uncomfortable sometimes. Admit it if you are in any kind of relationship with someone. Doesn’t matter if it is with parents, girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. It becomes uncomfortable sometimes.
It can get moody sometimes, but we should forget to respect the relationship between each other. It is the condition where both have to handle it while holding each other’s hand.
10. Avoid highly matured behavior.
Do not react over matured in front of your loved ones. Because it can’t lead to the way of Unconditional love. It includes a lot of thoughts, anxieties in a relationship. A person needs to think hundred times in front of an over-mature person. So do not be the one in front of your loved ones.
Unconditional love helps us to become expressive in our ways. It activates every part of the brain when it becomes in physical love. It generates love hormones in our body, which burns stress, anxieties, and depression.