Understanding Self-Centered Behavior: A Balanced Perspective

Understanding Self-Centered Behavior: A Balanced Perspective

  

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    Harsh Agarwal
    94 pts
    Rising Star


    A self-centered person is a person who is excessively concerned with themselves. They are highly concerned with their needs only. These people are kind of egocentric and egoistic.

    Somehow, they try to balance everything in their life. When we learn to live for ourselves while growing with age, some become self-centered. Many people live for their loved ones like for parents, siblings, and animals.

    Self-centered people are of two types.

    a. Negative self-centered.

    Negatively selfish people start making use of other people. They love to make others trouble and do their work. They do not complete their work by themselves. They love to pursue attention from everyone. They are not self-centered mind. They start spreading negative vibes and also distract others from their work.

    b. Positive self-centered.

    Positive self-centered people do not make use of others of their work. They also think for others. They do not care about negative people. They make their willpower well enough so that no one can make their use. They believe in helping needy people.

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    There are so many benefits of being self-centered, few are as follows:

    1. You can give more time to your choices.

    When you become self-centered, you are just focused on yourself. So, you can give more time to yourself. You need not think of anyone. You are focused on your choices, goals, and achievements. You can build yourself according to your choices.

    2. You will be able to play any role in your life.

    A self-centered people can raise themselves well in leadership roles. Because when they have control over themselves, they know the way to control others with better behavior. On the other hand, Self-centered people are more likely focused on themselves and do not give up on their goals easily.

    They don’t afraid to compete with others. Not only a leadership role, but you can also play any role in your life. The self-centered person is bitterly selfish, but they serve others well rather than normal people.

    3. More Practical.

    A self-centered person is more practical than a normal person. They believe in doing rather than imagining things. They are highly active for themselves. They do not stop their work for others. They also believe in relationships. But they do work for it without even making realizing their partner. They do not believe in dreams. They live their dreams.

    4. Highly insecure about their success.

    They got highly insecure when they get fail in their rising. So, they practice hard for their success. They do not feel complete without success. They become over-possessive for their success which is a positive point. Because when we are possessive of something, we give our best at every point in time.

    5. You can balance your life.

    Self-centered meant to be admired. Admired people can balance they are overall schedule. Every successful person has a balanced life. As they are more scheduled and stricter to their work. Hence, they are more balanced in their life than normal people.

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    6. You become independent.

    When you become self-centered, that means you become independent. You do not have to ask for things from others. You do not have to wait for someone to decide for you. You become selfish, so you make the right and accurate decisions for yourself.

    7. You Inspire others.

    You become an inspiration for others when you become self-centered. You start motivating others. When you become selfish, you gain so many qualities in yourself. Other people start following your steps to become successful. They start marking up your steps.

    8. You get to meet your inner soul.

    Self-centered people love to take their decisions by themselves. When they support every part of their life, they get to meet with their inner soul. If they make mistakes, they learn lessons by themselves. They become self-less for only themselves, not for others. When we start caring for ourselves, we get to know about our inner strengths and weakness.

    9. You stop becoming material for others.

    In this era, where everyone started becoming self-centered. Some become selfish in a positive way and some in a negative way. Negative people start using others for their work. But positive ones, not only think about themselves but also, they think about others. They do not use other people, and they stop becoming material for others. So that others can not use them for their profit.

    10. You can start meditating easily.

    You can start meditation easily. Because a self-centered person does not distract their mind. They can focus on their work smoothly. You can make a flow to the work which needs concentration and a highly focused mind.

    Everyone should be self-centered with a kind and nice attitude towards everyone. Self-centered can gain everything in their life.


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