15 benefits to be self-centered

Most of us are taught right from a very young age to be selfless and share. It's one of the basic lessons taught to a kid. Kids are always taught to put the needs of others before their own. Selflessness is a virtue. But is that true? Like, can a person be selfless all the time? Being too selfless can end up being bad in the long run. We may end up neglecting our own needs in favor of helping others. When our wants are not met, we become upset and unfulfilled.Is being self-centered a good thing?A balance is needed...

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15 ways to deal with self-centered people

Life is a journey, and we manage to meet pretty much all kinds of people in it. Kind, Smart, Cunning, Happy-go-lucky. But, the toughest is the self-centered lot. Extremely self-involved in their life, they can be easily spotted in a crowd, boasting about their achievements. Quite often, they are pretty tough to handle.So how do we deal with this lot? Avoid them? Runaway? But before that, let's see how certain people turn up so self-obsessed with their lives, shunning everything else as trivial!What causes a person to be self-centered?The seeds of self-centeredness are mostly sown at an early age. It...

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The Ultimate Guide to Signs of Negative People

Yоu рrоbаbly wоnder hоw оne рersоn саn survive with аll thаt inside them! Yet, these negаtive рeорle exist аll аrоund us аnd аre imроssible tо аvоid.This is nоt tо sаy thаt yоu will never hаve mоments оf desраir, аnxiety аnd disсоurаgement. But аs а роsitive рersоn, yоu never let these thоughts tаke оver yоur life. Yоu lives the fоur-tо-оne rаtiо: Yоu generаte fоur роsitive thоughts fоr every negаtive оne, tо keeр situаtiоns frоm getting оut оf hаnd.Whаt is negаtive рeорle?А negаtive рeорle оften hаve а hаrd time reсоgnizing this behаviоr in themselves. Sо we've рrоvided sоme аssistаnсe by rоunding uр...

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21 signs of a self-centered and self-absorbed people

Often when we are at a party or gathering, there is always a person who boasts about achieving a lot in life. Such people always need to be the center of attention in public places. These self-absorbed people are energy vampires who suck the life out of events or even people.21 signs of a Self-centered person Some sure-fire signs let us identify such people so that we can stay clear of them:1. Don't compromise on opinions: Self-confident people are sure about their views. They always stick to their viewpoints. They back their opinions with suitable proof. Self-absorbed people are quite...

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"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." - Steve Maraboli

Don’t give up: Believe in yourself and see the magic you create

"If they can do it, let them do it. If they can't do it, how can I do it?"This is the quote I read somewhere, and it made me think for a while. Anyway, it is true also. People in our society, or even you, have the same mindset about any task. And you easily give up on anything unexpectedly. I agree that when after too much hardship, you don't receive the positive result out of your work, getting disappointed is evident. You may lose your hopes. You feel like a loser. But, have your feelings changed the fact? Okay,...

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How to change your life - Few steps that you can implement to change your life

Evolution is a necessary part of life. Every one of us changes with time. Change is constant. You can't avoid changes in life. So just adapt and change with the changes in your surroundings.These changes can help you to discover the purpose of your life. It is always your choice to attract the positive changes that lead to the betterment of your living standards. Every person has been through the bad times where he/she thinks, "I want to change my life." Wanting to change is the first step of transformation, but just thinking about the change won't do anything. You...

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Think Outside the Box: Let's find the solution in another way

You should think out of the box!!!Whenever you are having the worst times of your lives where you feel stuck in all the areas, don't find a way to make a move, and it seems all the doors are shut, people will indeed suggest you think out of the box. But, what is the box? And, how should you go beyond the box? I don't know if you ever had this question, but when my teacher used this phrase for the first time, my mind continued to attack this question. Well, as easy it is advising someone that you need...

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Can you make yourself crying: Learn the psychology behind the crying

If I ask you to cry out loud, would you do it? Of course, you will not. Your first expression would be, why should I cry? Even when you don't have any reason to cry.I know, no one likes to cry. Everyone wants to be happy all life long. They can't see themselves or their loved ones crying. Even crying is not supposed to be an excellent action to live life healthily. It is an assumption that if someone is crying, they must not be happy, or they might have any huge problem, and so on. Whereas I will not...

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"Recognizing that you are not where you want to be is a starting point to begin changing your life." - Deborah Day

Weaknesses don't exist: Learn how to find your strength in the weaknesses

Take a minute, and think, if I ask you to define your strength and weaknesses, would your be able to do that? I believe you will do that. But, still, the result won't be satisfying. For research, some group of people was asked to list down the strength and weaknesses of their friends according to them, they have. The study observed that they made a list where the strength column was entire, and the weaknesses column had hardly two to three factors. In the second attempt, the same group of people was asked to list down the strengths and weaknesses...

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Do You Know Who You Are? If Not, Then Have A Look At These Steps & Find Out.

The person who you are going to spend your entire life with is none other than you yourself. You read it correctly. No one is going to be with you always for all of your life- except for you. So, it is only obvious to get to know the person properly with whom you are going to spend your entire life. Am I right? While finding your true self can be adventurous; but also complex and draining. And you may still be not a hundred percent sure of who you really are. That is okay, though. It is understandable if...

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How To Be A Nice - To Become A Nicer Person Following These Points Will Set You On The Path

Ever Since we can remember, we've been told to be nice. This is one of the first lessons our parents, guardians, or our elders will teach us in life- to be a pleasant person. So now the question is that is it really important to be nice? Does being a pleasant person hold so much significance as we make it look? If you evaluate and look for the answer, then you are certainly going to be certainly affirmative. I mean, why not? Just think it this way, who would you prefer to be associated with within your life? Won't you...

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Intermittent Fasting: Now Fitness is Not a Big Deal

Can you believe it? Fasting can also have the types and procedures to be done to affect your health positively. Well, it is true. We know fasting with just a process of giving a short break to your meal for a day. But, fasting is not only about it. I'm sure, after going through this article, you are going to be amazed.So, I was talking about Intermittent Fasting!Each one of you does fasting when you are sleeping. Isn't it? That fasting duration is pretty long, for around 7-8 hours. So, why not just adding a few hours to your fasting...

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"Sometimes in life, we take a leap of faith. Remember, the leap is not about getting from one side to the other. It's simply about taking the leap...and trusting the air, the universal breath will support your wings so that you may sour." - Kristi Bowman

Hey, do you know the secret guide to be a good person?

Hey, how are you, people? Today I am going to talk about one of the most important topics. Many questions may arise in your mind and you might try your hard to get answers to them all. But the main question is that What does it mean to be a good person? How will we realize that we are good ones? Are there any traits or signs so that you can recognize them? Why is it so important to be a good person?Yesterday I met a person on the railway platform. She was really cute and beautiful. I started talking...

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Good Character Traits You Should Build: What are Good Character Traits and Why is it Important for us

Character traits are what you are as a person. It defines you in society. It is your mental and moral qualities that are different from others.You can change your character if you think it isn't the "right way" to act. Adults change their characters when they see that their acts are hurting others.They may be motivated to change their character to a new way of thinking.A good character trait is someone who acts and thinks that matches some common good traits that are accepted. Such as being honest, respectful, and caring.They may also be called good values or good morals.What...

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A Guide on How to Deal With Your Narcissistic: Mother, Husband, Boyfriend and How to Beat Them

Narcissism is something most people have within them. Narcissism is a personality disorder that is sometimes hard to deal with it. People with this disorder are egoistic. Narcissists are not just people obsessed with themselves. Instead, it is an illness. It is always a mistake that narcissism is a choice to have. Although, dealing with them could be difficult, mainly if it is your loved one or a family member. Definition of Narcissist  What’s the definition of a narcissist? a narcissistic behavioral condition, NPD, is a mental sickness It is named as a pattern of a sense of greatness, a...

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What makes a champion- Cultivate a champion mindset

“I’ve never tried to hide the fact that it is my intention to become the best,” said Cristiano Ronald, the great football champion who is considered to be the greatest player of all time. Having a mindset like this could lead any person with a set of goals to achieve the pinnacle of success! What sets a champion apart from a common man? His/her wins? Achievements? A wardrobe filled with medals? Bank accounts in every country? No! It is self-belief to achieve the goals set no matter what! It is also the mental toughness behind human achievement. Champion’s Mindset“I really...

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"You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them." - Shonda Rhimes

How To Develop Patience - patience is key

How many times it has happened that you’re waiting for a client’s revert. You’re already late, and you’re getting angry under pressure. In thoughts of getting behind schedule, you lose your temper and start yelling at the person right in front of you. Sometimes, you need to work extra hours due to the urgency of meetings or deals. You feel extreme impulsive outrage for all valid reasons. Your boss has scheduled a client meeting at the eleventh hour, and you are given that task to accomplish. Because of this, you may be feeling to be stuck and probably go to...

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Why positive self talk is Important and effective?

Self-talk is something that occurs naturally when you are awake. People believe that self-talk is much more important than it seems. Positive self-talk helps in building self-confidence and curbing negative emotions. Take a minute out of your schedule and think about what have you spoken to yourself today. Was it nice? Was it helpful or critical? Did that make you feel better? Analyze your thoughts. Your thought influences your emotions and mood in a huge way. The conversations you have with yourself can be good or bad, helpful or destructive. They make a big impact on your life as a...

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The power of positive thinking: Need to watch our thoughts

There's a Mike Dooley quote that says, "Thoughts become Things. Choose Good ones". Frank outlaw supports it too by saying, "Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become action". That's how important your 'thoughts and thinking' are.  The power of thoughts: you need to watch your thoughts, for they can shape you. Thinking positively not only helps you move forward but also improves your mental wellness. The more positive you are, the better your health and relationship will be. The better you shape your thoughts, the more enhanced will be your outcome. You should also...

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My Competition is with Myself: Compete with yourself

Have you ever wondered What is the difference between competing with yourself and others?. Competing with yourself and competing with others, you might notice this. But it causes a lot of psychological changes in your mentality. You're thinking of power and how you interact with people, which can cause a change in your daily life. When you complete with others, the only mentality you have in mind is that you should always compare yourself. With the ones who are better and superior to you. It won't do anything but to make your life worse than ever. Comparing yourself with others...

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"Take criticism seriously, but not personally. If there is truth or merit in the criticism, try to learn from it. Otherwise, let it roll right off you." - Hillary Clinton