Maria Bonita
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Enhance your skills

I help you to select the right skills, to choose the right courses, to find your career or internship you should take up and land your dream job…


Find the source of emotion

Once you identify the emotion, find the source of the same. It can be a breakup, or death, or any other tragic incident that can be the source. Additionally, now is the time to find the cause of your worries and put an end to it. Though your mind might be in a state of chaos, relax and find an alternative to it.


The best way to get over any emotion is to accept the fact. Learn that you have no control over some things and get past it. Additionally, think of it as a positive phase that showed your strength. Similarly, take it as a learning opportunity. Time doesn’t stop for anyone. It goes on, and you need to move ahead with it.

Similarly, if you are feeling negative emotions, the world isn’t going to pause. Pick up your pieces and get back up. In addition, you can never change what happened. Hence, learn to accept reality and learn from experiences.



Do Good Planning

Good planning demands time. On the contrary, making appropriate plans in a short time-frame is a skill needed nowadays. You need to develop good planning skills to resolve quick tasks as well as big tasks. It comes with managing your time.

Execute it

Once you are done planning, execute it. Executing a plan has multiple factors corresponding to it. Understand the time every stage of execution takes. Manage the time well through planning, scheduling, and deciding. By doing so, you can easily get the results.

To-do list or Checklist

It depends upon individual preferences. Preparing a check-list or to-do list of all your tasks, priorities, and important works will help you. It lets you keep track of things.

Meeting Deadlines

It’s an important skill associated with Time-Management. Meeting your deadline brings more credibility to you. In order to achieve it, you need good planning. Utilizing time efficiently is important here.


How to recognize signs of ignorance? Best ways to deal with it.
Ignorance is generally seen as a weapon for getting what we want quietly. Neither arguments over to it nor any conflict. But ignorance and silence are ok until the issue isn't big. When ignorance enters into serious relationships, it becomes hard to handle. To know what's in the mind of another person becomes tough to recognize. When ignorance is for making things work, it is perfectly alright, but only if it does not turn into emotional abuse.Ignorance is a common thing that we all have faced once in our life. We are being ignored by someone who we love. And...View more
When giving up good for us? You might be trying to accomplish the wrong thing. And bad things should get eliminated from your life. So, when you are doing something, and I'm saying you do not give up easily on it, I would like to suggest sometimes when giving up is the best way to deal with the situation. However, lets here discuss such situations when giving up is the right decision for you. 1. When you know in your heart that it's not going to work outWhatever you are doing, no one else can tell you how it is...View more
Sending positive thoughts and energyThe Universe work on the energies that you emit. It can be positive or negative. The entire game is of the frequency that you generate through your points. We all know that energy can not be destroyed. It can be transferred from one form to another. Even if you feel a lot of negative energy around you, you can not destroy it. You will have to work on it and convert it into the positive one and transfer it. But the question is, how to share these energies and thoughts with others? Positive energy starts with...View more
Learn The Hacks to Effective CommunicationHave you ever heard of any influencer capturing the stage? I'm sure you have. Instead, if you like people to listen, there would be someone you admire the most. So, why do you like them? What is the thing that attracted you about themselves? The answer to this question may vary. But, the common thing about everyone would be communication.Though your admired influencer is different for everyone, the familiar and first thing you like about them is their communication to the audience.Even though the one who had captured the stage is speaking solely, their art...View more
Overcoming setbacks: How to find another wayOne of my cousins’ lost more than 25 lakhs of his investment in machinery because of the Chennai floods in 2015. What followed was a long bout of depression that he struggled to come out for a long period. However, he made a comeback; he restarted his venture and is now reaping the benefits of persistence. “Success is not final; failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill.Dream, setback, and aftermath What is a setback?Setbacks may be single or multiple situations that block your progress forward. You...View more
Schedules and propensities are the way to consistency, which is the way to accomplishing objectives. So, realizing how to frame a propensity is significant. I'm extremely vocal about my aversion to the possibility of "do what needs to be done," and the activity business thought that activity needs to suck. To form new habitsRegardless of whether your propensity arrangement is centered on exercise or whatever else (business, composing, kinships, connections, and so forth), greatness and achievement are extremely simply the after-effects of your profoundly instilled propensities. Understanding the brain research of propensities can enable you to transform them. If you...View more

My Topic

Compare and contrast

Compare and contrast related topics discuss the similarities and differences of things such as ideas, opinions, concepts, items, points, etc.

Personality and character

Personality refers to the combination of qualities, attitude, and behavior, that makes a person distinct from others. Character refers to a set of moral and mental qualities and beliefs, that makes a person different from others.

Self Confidence

Confidence is a feeling of trust in self or others. When you are clear-headed and have that element of esteem in yourself, it means you have self-confidence. Self-confidence is your trust in your own ability to do any task by viewing yourself.

Life hacks

Life hacks are such simple tips and tricks that save an incredible amount of your time. They improve your productivity and help you find quick fixes to annoying situations.

how to fall asleep

A sound and healthy sleep are extremely important. By giving rest to your body, you are in a way helping yourself to feel good and make your body and brain function more effectively.

Practice self love

Practice self-love to believe in yourself. You love yourself and consider to be a valuable and commendable person. You have a positive opinion and judgment in your own self. Compliment yourself. Congratulate and applaud for your merits. Console if need be. But respect yourself and love more day after day

Gratitude journal

Gratitude is the positive element in you that lets you express your thankfulness for people or things. Gratitude forms an important trait as it defines your attitude. Gratitude attitude also defines who you really are, what you think you are, and what others think you are.

The power of positive thinking

Positive thinking is an emotional and mental attitude that focuses on the good and expects results that will benefit you. It’s about anticipating happiness, health, and success – essentially, training yourself to adopt an abundance mindset and cultivate gratitude for your own successes and those of others.

Law of attraction

The Law of Attraction is the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on. It is the Law of Attraction which uses the power of the mind to translate whatever is in our thoughts and materialize them into reality.

My Group

Unlock Your True Potential: Enlight the power within you

Unlock Your True Potential: Enlight the power within you

Unlock Your True Potential

Discussion 1

What is meant by true potential?

What is meant by unlocking true potential?

Importance of unlocking the true potential

Obstacles finding true potential

Ways to reach full potential

Discussion 2

How to remove inner obstacles (that hold you back)

Discipline to unlock your potential

How to change habits to change your character?

How to unlock true potential?

Tools to unlock true potential

Roadmap to unlock true potential

Discussion 3

Conscious and subconscious work to unlock true potential

People who hold the key to unlock true potential

Lock ego; Unlock the true potential

Neuroscience could be vital to unlocking your brain’s true potential

Ancient Chinese Secrets to Unlock your True Potential

mindset guide: how to master your mind and unlock your true potential

Discussion 4

Action plan


Master your brain

Discussion 1:

a. What does memory training mean?

b. How do you train your memory?

c. How does working memory training work?

d. Can memories be trained?

e. What improves working memory?

f. Can you build working memory?

g. How long does it take to train memory?

h. How to Improve your Memory And Learning Skills?

Research work

Discussion 2:

a. Memory Training - an overview

b. Memory Training Techniques & Tips

c. What is memory training in psychology?

d. 3 Powerful Memory Training Techniques From Around The World

e. Ways to Enhance Memory

Research work

Discussion 3:

a. How to Improve Memory?

b. Ways to Enhance Memory -

c. 8 techniques to improve memory

d. Top 10 Proven Techniques to Remember More and Learn Faster-

e. 15 Techniques To Improve Memory-

Research work

Discussion 4:

a. Memory Exercises

b. memory exercises for adults

c. memory exercises for students

d. 22 brain exercises to improve memory, cognition, and creativity

Research work

Discussion 5:

Action plan


Rewire your brain

Discussion 1 ( Introduction)


What is the meaning of “rewire your brain”

Is it possible (rewire your brain)

Importance of rewiring your brain

How long does it take to rewire your brain?

Research work

Discussion 2 (Process)

How to rewire your brain

To feed your mind with positive thoughts

To reset your brain chemistry

To untrained your mind to retrain your brain

Train your mind to be positive

Reset your brain to be happy

Stop thinking bad thoughts

Get rid of negative thoughts

Remove negative thoughts from my subconscious mind

Research work

Discussion 3 (Exercise)

Neuroplasticity effects on our brain

How do you activate neuroplasticity?

Examples of neuroplasticity

30 Neuroplasticity exercises

What you feed your mind will lead your life?

what you feed your mind affects you?

What you feed into your mind? with examples and process

How do you increase neural connections in the brain?

Research work

Discussion 4 ( Action plan)

Action plan


Master your decision making and problem solving

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Discussion 1 (Introduction)


What is the right decision?

Why do we need to take the right decision?

Why do we get confused (Why I am confused all the time?)

To make a decision vs confusion

Right decision vs Smart decision

Good decision vs bad decision

3 types of confusions

Research work

Discussion 2 (Process)

How to make the right decision

When we are confused about how to take a decision

How do you know if your decision is right or wrong?

The process to make decisions quickly

Stick to your decision without any regret

Make the best decision for yourself

Be confident in your decisions

Research work

Discussion 3 (Exercise)

7 steps in decision making

5 decision-making skills

Step by step process to make a smart decision

When you are struggling to make a decision, what do you do?

Avoid bad decisions steps

Techniques for decision making (SWOT, Decision matrix, Theory of growth-share matrix, etc.)

Research work

Discussion 4 (Action plan)

3 types of decision making and action plan

Before taking any decision, consider these things

Stay firm on your decision action plan

The nine steps of the decision-making model

The best knowledge from books action plan


Discussion 5 (Extra resources)

To make a big life-changing decision

A good example of decision-making

What things affect your decision?

What are some tools and techniques for making better decisions?

Great decision-makers (Elon Musk’s Important decisions, etc.)

Take the right decision based most popular books techniques and strategies


Build unstoppable self confidence

Build unstoppable self-confidence - Boost your confidence- learn how to feel and look more confident. Discover your confidence, increase self-esteem, become a truly confident person, overcome self-doubt, fulfill your potential, build social and inner confidence, and feel great about yourself.

Build unstoppable self-confidence - Boost your confidence- learn how to feel and look more confident. Discover your confidence, increase self-esteem, become a truly confident person, overcome self-doubt, fulfill your potential, build social and inner confidence, and feel great about yourself.

Discussion 1 (introduction) – ( In this, we will first clearly define what actually confidence and self-confidence are)

Meaning of Confidence

Right meaning of self-confidence

Why self-confidence is important?

What are the things that show self-confidence?

Different Types of self-confidence.

Discussion 2- How to find you are confident or not?

Test and sign to know your confidence level.

The determining factors of confidence

How body language indicates confidence?

Understanding the difference in confidence vs. overconfidence

Discussion 3 How self-confident follows self-awareness?

Why self-awareness is needed to be self-confident?

Importance of self-awareness

Neisser’s levels of self-awareness

15 self-awareness questions to ask yourself

Discussion- 4 Why you are not self-confident? And ways to tackle them.

Reasons behind lack of self-confidence

How to eliminate these factors

Comfort zone

Social anxiety and awkwardness

Social comparison

Criticism Mental blocks


Fear of rejection

Insecurity Shyness

Discussion-5 How to become self-confident step-by-step (Action plan) To gain confidence step by step process Exercises for building self-confidence How to socially interact tactfully What are some tools and techniques to become super confident? Effective strategies to become socially confident

Discussion-6 Research work and books on self-confidence that helps you in understanding self-confidence thoroughly.

Discussion-7- how to build self-confidence after failure

How to boost self-confidence that you had once.

Introduce self-esteem to yourself

How the Pygmalion effect leads to the highest level of self-confidence.

How to start again with baby steps

Discussion-8 life-changing things that come out of self-confidence

Embracing vulnerability

Builds powerful mindset

How to find your passion and purpose in life

Discussion - (understanding about passion and purpose)

Introduction What is passion

what are you passionate about

passion examples

things to be passionate about

Passion vs purpose

Discussion - (Step by step process)

Why can’t I find my passion?

How to find passion

how to find a career you love

Follow your passion

Discussion - (Best books learning points and strategy or framework)

Books about finding your passion

Discussion - (Action plan)

How do I find my Ikigai?

How do I live Ikigai?

How do I find a career I love?

how to find your passion test

what job will make a happy (quiz)

Goal setting to achieve success

Define your why and align it to your goals & create a step-by-step plan, implement strategies and achieve your goals. Use smart goals to focus your work, hold yourself accountable, measure and evaluate your progress, and make an impact. Achieve impossible goals, be highly motivated, and set goals effectively with OKR. Define & measure what really matters. Achieve more goals faster than ever before.

A methodical approach for setting meaningful goals and formulating suitable action plans to achieve them. Work on proven goals setting system for life, career, and short-term goals. Learn how to use goals and goal-setting to increase your motivation, increase your results and happiness.


Discussion 1: What is a Goal? How to describe Goal Setting?

Goal setting tips/factors involved,

Time Management: Primary focus on goal-setting

➤ Organizing

➤ Priority setting

➤ Avoiding complexities

➤ Avoiding distractions

➤ Finding the right way that works

Describing Goals: Make a checklist of writing goals. Framing goals

How to write your goals?

➤ Your goals should be simple, precise, concise

➤ Keep it to one sentence (writing)

➤ Make it specific

➤ Measurable

➤ Make it challenging

➤ Believe it is possible, within your reach somehow

➤ Make sure it is the right time for it

➤ Make sure it is your goal and not someone else's

Discussion 1: Emotional Intelligence and Goal Setting

Emotional intelligence – ability to set goals as a part of emotional intelligence

Dealing with change,

Things affecting the direction of the goal – changing nature of almost everything!

People – self-doubting that change can affect the value of their skills

People – concerned about financial loss,

Status quo – easier- setting to comfort zone – change scares – goals fail,

Listening to people's ideas and reacting positively- helps!

Avoiding defensiveness and "going along with the crowd" attitude – stops,

Leadership – essential – goal-setting – organization, team, etc.,

Lewin's Model of Change: Goal Setting changes




Discussion 2: The 10 Basic Steps to Accomplish any Goals

a. Know your WHY for the goal

b. Breaking goals into smaller steps/sub-goals

c. Planning

d. Setting deadlines,

e. Finding accountability

f. Just one more step: when you have a hard time processing and executing goals

g. Having realistic expectations

h. Thrive in your Failures – Learn

i. Start. Just Start!

Discussion 2: How do we set up Goals Grid?

➤ How to pick goals to goal grid?

➤ How to know which one to choose to execute?

➤ Challenging goals or easier goals?

➤ Prioritize goals?

➤ Pick one and start with the first step to take!

Discussion 3: How to Set SMART Goals? Different Techniques, Approaches, & Changes to Set Goals

1. SMART Goals – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Time-Oriented.

2. HARD Goals – Heartfelt, Animated, Required, Difficult.

3. WOOP Goals – Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan

4. OKR Goals – Objective & Key Results

5. Micro Goals

6. Backward Goals

7. Value-Based Goals

8. Visual Goals

9. One-Word Goals

Discussion 4: Locke and Latham's Five Principles of Goal Setting: Locke and Latham Goal Setting Theory

Locke and Latham's goal-setting theory details five principles that support creating effective and motivating goals.

They are:

➤ Clarity

➤ Challenge

➤ Commitment

➤ Feedback

➤ Task complexity

Discussion 5: Zig Ziglar's Seven Steps of Goal Setting

➤ Identify the Goal

➤ List the Benefits

➤ List the Obstacles to Overcome

➤ List the Skills and Knowledge Required

➤ List the People or Groups to Work With

➤ Create an Action Plan

➤ Set the Deadline for Achievement

And Learning More!

Discussion 4: How to Set Goals for Your Business?

Organizational Goals!

➤ How to manage expectations through describing the required/desired endpoint and end result?

➤ Numerical organizational goals are important!

➤ A different way of phrasing goals (defining for everyone else to see)

➤ Know the difference between a goal and a business objective

➤ Stared goals need to be congruent with the desires of the executive?

➤ Goals need to be communicated to and agreed upon by everyone!

➤ Business objectives flow from the organizational goal

How to lead a goal-setting discussion within an organization?

Reviewing Organizational Goals,

Using Goal Grid,

Applying SMART Goals..,


Discussion 5: How to Conduct a Goal-Setting Discussion? ( Team, Organization, Self)

Understanding goals,

Ensuring meaningful goals: Achieve, preserve, Avoid, Eliminate.,

Activity and Accomplishment method...

Can set appropriate SMART goal templates on own...

Reasonable time frame

Discussion 6: How to Set Goals as a Team?

Set goals at the team level

➤ "The more you involve your employees in setting goals for themselves and the group, the more committed to those goals they are likely to be."

Letting people develop their own goals

Deadlines – accountability

Track progress on goals

Helping people meet their goals

Regular feedback, discussions, etc.

Learning from mistakes.

Each team is different –try various to finally pick the one that works well for the team's..,

Discussion 6: Benefits of Goal Setting & Importance of Goal Flexibility

Discussion 7: How to Stretch Goals – How to Set them for Exponential Growth?

What are stretch goals?

Setting stretch goals:

Figure out your stretch goals,

Write them..,

Set sub-goals and plans

Action plan –taking action

What happens when failed?

Watching base rates/results/objectives

Discussion 8: The 7 Sins of Goal Setting

Vagueness, Multiplicity, Outcome Focus, Ease, Incapability, Incongruence, Isolation,


➤ Denial

➤ Resistance

➤ Lack of Exploration

➤ Lack of Commitment

Discussion 9: Drawbacks in Setting and Communicating Goals

Irrelevance, Impracticality, Excessiveness, Disinterest, Expectancy, Negativity, Inadequacy

Discussion 10: How to work on Goal Setting Exercises, Tools, & Settings

Pdf reference.,

Goal setting examples.,

FRILL – goal setting exercise – focus, Integrity, Reflection, Encouragement...


Action Plan

Key takeaways from Goal Settings

1. Learning to deal with change

2. Using objectives – short terms things

3. Smart goals

4. Set goals

5. Attitude changes

6. Time management