What do I want to do in my life? This is a fundamental question every one of you has asked yourselves, sometimes in your life. Though it is an essential question in everybody's life, many of you don't know its answers.
This is the only question that decides your life path, either; it creates a way for you. It gives you a rough idea, what your life will be like after a particular time.
For some people, the answer to this question is already available, and they are all ready to go ahead. But, few people are still searching for its solution. Sometimes, this question takes a whole time of yours to let you know the answer. Or, sometimes, life ends, but still, the problem doesn't get its solution.
What is your status for this question in life? Are you in of those who have its solution, or, you belong to that group who are searching for the answer? Well! No one can help you to solve this problem.
Indeed, people can help you up to some point. But, the final step and final call will be yours. So, you need to be very active in the search. So, what do you think, what could it be?
Frankly saying, the purpose of your life will add meaning and raise the value of your life. So, don't judge something just instantly so that you then feel guilty or regretted about your decisions.
As I said earlier, it will change your life; if your decision goes wrong, it can be the reason for your life's problems.
So, you want to find the answer to the question, what do I want to do in my life? I will help you with some questions. You need to ask these questions and analyze your thoughts. It will help you in finding the best answers.
Please have a look at a few questions:
1) What are the things I am passionate about the most?
The journey starts here. While self-analyzing, this question will play a vital role. With this question, you let your mind think and focus on those things; you feel passionate.
You might have seen many people who have made their hobby their profession. You can say they were passionate about the thing. And that is why they could add meaning to their life using their passion.
When you focus on something with passion, nothing can stop you from becoming successful in the core area. Your love gets converted into your profession. And, this, you got your purpose in life.
Ask yourself, what do you love? What things make you feel fulfilled? What kind of work do you do, and still it won't feel like work?
The work can be anything, such as painting, dancing, taking care of animals or people, writing, singing, and so on. Don't give up on anything until you find the best thing for you. Once you find it, without being late, work on it to make it best.
2) What are my most significant accomplishments in life?
It is always suggested not to look into your past. Let the past in the time, and move ahead.
But, I will suggest you have a quick tour of your past. But, you have to think only about your past experience, which made you happy and proud to be a part of that thing.
Think that how did you felt at that time when you achieved it. It can be anything, like, you won the debate competition, winning a trophy for your acting, best essay, or anything.
Even though you won the prize in the best essay competition, it means, somewhere deep down, you have a passion or talent for writing. Which you are unaware of.
Your good feelings in the last achievements can be your best decision for now. Remembering your past always can not be wrong. Now, you should give a try to the old winning experiences to make your purpose in life.
3) If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have, and what would I choose to do?
This is an interesting question. Isn't it?
Thinking of yourself, doing something for your entire life without getting bored could be a cool exercise.
Think like; you have a lot of money, and you are doing something that you wanted to do since ever. What would be that thing?
The answer to this equation will help you find your life's purpose or what you want to do in your life. What I mean to say is, by answering these questions, you will be able to find what do you want to do?
What are those things you would be enjoying it, and it is adding meaning to your life?
Do not ever think of the limitations or the impossibility of the task. Instead, you should believe about how strongly you want to pursue that thought?
Remember, nothing is impossible in this entire world. You only need to have strong will power and dedication.
4) What are my goals in life?
A goal without a life means nothing. Everyone has a purpose and should have a plan. Goals are necessary aspects of your life to make your future happier.
Everyone's goal includes health goals, family goals, and career goals. So, please answer these question:
• What are your health goals?
• What are your family goals?
• What are your career goals?
Once you could find out the answers to this question, more than half of the task is done. Now, you have only to work with full dedication to achieve your goal.
5) Who do I admire the most in the world?
We all have a person in our life; we get inspired by it. We want to be like that person. Either we learn many things from that person's life journey. Somewhere, the person whom you admire the most contributes to your life.
Of course, it will have a significant effect on your life. So, think of the personality that you respect and follow most. Ask yourself, what are those qualities of the person, you like the most? Why do you appreciate and admire the person? Also, what things have you learned from that individual?
When you answer these questions, you will see how it is benefiting you in finding your purpose in life.
As per research, your personality is the average of the five people you spend most of the time with. Your surrounding peoples also plays a vital role in your growth. So, don't waste your time with the people who hold you back from your achievements.
6) What do I don't like to do in my life?
What do I don't want to do? This question is as important as what I want to do in your life?
These two questions are the foundation of your life. Eliminate those things that you can not imagine in your life, or you don't want to see ever in your life.
Welcome those factors you have always dreamed of, you would like to have in your life. You can not compromise with those factors.
Listing those things which you don't want to do in your entire life ever, will help you to be clear on your thoughts when you get clarity on your thoughts, about what things you would like to add to your life, and what elements you would like to eliminate from your life will make a path for you.
For example, if you don't like your job, because you have to work from a place setting for 8-9 hours. What can you do then? You can find another job, which will allow you to roam as a part of your job. The solution is not complicated. You only have to think about that way.
You can go to this path all along, with positivity and hard work.
7) How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?
Your plans will not work only by listing them down. The journey from a willingness to accomplishment is not so easy. It is a challenging route. And, it demands your dedication and the efforts you make to complete your listed elements.
When you want to do great things in your life, you will have to work hard and make great efforts. This also means putting more and more hours into your work.
Get out of your comfort zone. Comfort zones give you temporary satisfaction. And the journey towards your goal will start with the first step out of your comfort zone.
You have to keep trying and trying and trying. You will often fall. Without losing the hopes, you will have to be ready for more failures because the ladder of loss will take you to the height of success.
Every good thing gets time to be confirmed. And success is one of them. Success will test you in each phase of your life. But, one day, indeed, it will be all yours.