You may have learned about the game; 21 questions ask to the people. Nowadays, this game is trending in young people to have fun.
Well, even though it is a game, but the purpose of the game is to know each other. In this game, one has to make a list of the question and ask the other one by one.
You can play it as one is asking, and the other is answering the questions. But, if you want, you can ask the questions alternatively so that you both can enjoy the game of question and answer.
At the end of the game, you will know the person better than before, making this game enjoyable to play. So, be with me throughout the article and see what questions you can use to play this game. And, here I started:
21 Questions for Friend
What embarrasses you the most, and what's been your most embarrassing moment?
If you want to know your friend, you can ask this question, about what they find so embarrassing that they never choose it to do anyhow. And, also, you can know, whether they have gone through any of such experience. It will be fun.
Who do you look up to the most, and what qualities do you love about that person?
This question will help you to know about your friend's admirable person in their life, and the reason for their appreciation by your friend.
What would be your perfect day?
Ask this question to your friend and know what things can make a perfect day for your friend. This can be a fantastic way to know your friend.
What's your biggest fear?
If you don't know about your friends' fear factors, this question will help you learn about your friend.
How do you like to be comforted when you're sad or upset?
Not everyone gets relaxed by the same thing, or they don't find the same medium to calm down. So, ask this question and see your friend's cup of tea to get comfortable when they are upset.
What's your all-time favorite memory?
This can be another good question to know your friend closely by knowing and being a part of their favorite memory.
Have you ever been in real danger?
Well, such things do not happen with everyone, but yes, if your friend has something to share like this with you, you will enjoy listing to it.
Do you cook often?
If you don't know whether your friend can cook or not, or they go to the kitchens and cook the meal, ask this question, you will get an answer. You will enjoy the topic.
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve eaten?
Such topics often get the humor to the conversation. Also, this will make your interaction exciting and fulfilled.
What don’t you do enough of?
Ask this question and see which part of life your friend reveals in front of you.
Do you get stage fright?
Well, many of you may have this problem. So, this question can make you understand many things about your friend.
How was your first day of school?
Well, school memories bring a smile to the face. On the first day of school, someone may probably recognize the school. But in the end, you both will have a good conversation on this topic.
Do you often sympathize with the villain?
This is something exciting and different topic to know about. But, just for fun, you can ask this question and get a great answer and conversation on this topic.
Are there any websites that you visit daily?
We can't live without mobile and social media. But, what is our favorite place to spend most of the time is interesting to know about. So, this question will help you to see this thing about your friend.
Have you ever went on a diet?
Well, you can ask this question, if you and your friend know each other for a short period. So, this will help you to know about their health care.
When you were a kid, did you look forward to being an adult?
I'm sure; when you were a kid, you have had this thought multiple times. Indeed your friend too has had this thought. So, with this question, you can talk about the various topics.
Do you care about updating your phone to a new model often?
This question helps you know about your friends' thinking about the phone and what they think about updating the mobile phone often.
What’s the most unusual event you’ve ever attended?
If I was asked this question, I have many such events where I didn't expect to be. Your friend may also have such a memory. So, try out this question and see what they reply to you.
What’s your favorite decade of movies?
This can be an excellent question to ask while being in the game to know about the movie choice of your friend. This topic can go longer and bring many things in between in your conversation, such as favorite music, singer, song, etc.
Do you prefer to watch a movie alone or with other people?
Ask this question and get a great answer to this question. Also, you will contact many other topics to discuss the same issue.
Do you ever participate in the local cultural stuff your city has to offer?
This question will help you to know about the cultural interest of your friend and what they think about such things. This also brings the personality of the human in front of you.
21 Questions for Girlfriend
Do you believe in God?
It is not essential for everyone to believe in God. Instead, it is an individual choice to trust it or not. So, it can be a good question to know about your girlfriend and their perspective on this topic.
What social causes do you feel passionate about?
If your girlfriend has an interest in social activities, this can be a good question for you to know about your girlfriend's reason for the passion for the social cause.
What do you want to be remembered for?
Everyone has an idea for this question for which they are working so hard to get the result. So, ask this question to your girlfriend and know what they feel about this topic.
Who have you been friends with the longest?
This question will help you to know about the close friends of your girlfriend. Also, this question will make you understand the entire friend circle of your girlfriend.
How long was your longest relationship?
This question is related to the past life of your girlfriend. So, it will be a good question to know about their previous relationships.
Are you close with your family?
With this question, you will understand the bond that your girlfriend share with their family; also the people in their family. So, it can be a great question to know about them more.
If you got pregnant today, what would you do?
This can be a serious topic to discuss about. But, I would say, it can be a critical question too, to ask in your relationship. So, try out this question and see what they think about this.
What have challenging experiences made you stronger?
If someone is so strong, indeed, there is a reason behind the scenes. Experiences make you stronger. So, ask your girlfriend and get an answer to this question that can amaze you.
What inspires you?
With this question, you will get to know the source of the inspiration your girlfriend has. Whereas, this topic can go so good to know each other.
What are your life goals?
Talking about life goals means having an exciting and deeper conversation that can tell you many things. So it can be an excellent question for you both.
Who do you look up to?
You may get a great answer to this question. Indeed, you will have a good interaction over this topic.
How do you want to be proposed to? In a crowded city square with a backing band or privately on a scenic mountaintop?
This is a good idea to know about your girlfriend's dream proposal. Maybe they don't tell you about this in general, but as you both are in a game, they will have to answer this question.
What song do you wish was written about you?
Well, every girl wants a song that their boyfriend should dedicate to them. So, it can be a good question to know which music they feel would have to be written for them.
What kind of wedding do you want? A beach ceremony with 50 of your closest friends, or a great blowout with 300 people and a live band?
This is like a dream come true when a girl gets a boy they love. So, this question can also be like the same, the plan comes true. And it is the first step towards that. So, no girl can lie about this topic. So, you are going to get a great answer to this question.
Do you believe in soul mates?
Soul mates are hard to find. And, somewhere, every girl believes on this site. So, ask this question to your girlfriend and know what they think about this topic.
Who was your first crush?
I think your girlfriend would love to answer this question. As talking about the first crush can be an exciting topic for them.
How do you know when you're in love?
The feeling of being in love is one of the best feelings ever. So, when someone starts realizing it, nothing can be as great as it. You will have a good conversation about this topic.
Are relationships meant to last forever?
Well, relationships should be handled carefully and keep lasting forever. But, people may have different options on this topic. So, know what your girlfriend thinks about this topic with this question.
What is your ideal date: horseback riding followed by a dinner prepared by your date, or dinner out at a romantic restaurant, followed by club-hopping?
This question will clear your girlfriend's idea or expectations about an ideal date, which can help you arrange the one for the next time you go on a date.
Would you ever quit your job or move to a new city for your partner?
This is always something a girl has to decide about. So, what your girlfriend thinks and will do if they have to do it; get an answer for this question by your girl.
How many times have you been in love?
I think true love can happen once in a life. But, people may have a conflict on it. So, ask this question and see what your girlfriend thinks about his topic.
21 Questions for Boyfriend
How long was your longest relationship? Why did it end?
If you want to know about your boyfriend's previous relationships and the reason for the end of them, you can ask this question.
Have you ever been engaged or married? Do you ever want to get married?
Well, ask this question to your boyfriend and see what they say about this topic. It can also help you know about their opinions on the marriage, leading you to an exciting conversation.
Have you ever lived with a partner?
We call it a live-in relationship, which is common nowadays. So, this question will help you to know the opinion of your boyfriend about this topic.
How important is religion or spirituality to you?
Again, everyone can have different options on this topic. So, this question will help you to know your boyfriend's opinion about this topic and also, what they feel about such things like, the religions and spirituality, etc.
How do you feel about gay rights?
Well, this can be an excellent topic to have a conversation with between you too. This question will not only give a good case to know each thinking about such sensitive issues but also know about the person your boyfriend is.
Do you think money can buy happiness?
I believe money is so important to live life happily. Still, we can see many people are not happy even though they have a lot of cash. So, ask this question and see what your boyfriend has an opinion about this event.
What is your dream job?
Talking about your boyfriend's dream job can be a good thing to know more about their career choices, the passions, and the work they want to do.
What one thing do you want to accomplish in your life?
Everyone has an idea in their mind, what they want to achieve in their life. So, it can be another good topic to know your boyfriend and their dreams.
What accomplishment are you most proud of?
Accomplishments are something that any way to be proud of. But, there is something that makes you feel so proud of achieving it. So, this question will reveal those parts of your boyfriend's life to knows about.
What are you afraid of?
If you can talk about this topic, and your boyfriend also shares this information with you, it means you both have a perfect bond with each other.
How would you describe your relationship with your family?
This question will lead you to know about your boyfriend's family and their relationship with the family members.
Do you have a best friend?
When you ask this question, you are trying to know your boyfriend's best friend or friend's circle, which will make you know your boyfriend more than before.
What is your love language?
Love languages can be different for anyone. Some may find the love in a tiny gesture, wherein some may find it in huge treats and gifts. So, ask this question to your boyfriend and see what their love language is.
Are you an introvert (those who recharge by being alone) or an extrovert (those who feel energized from being around other people)?
Even if you know the answer to this question, you can ask this question to your boyfriend and see whether you were right or wrong about the solution you know.
Do you hold grudges?
Well, this is more about noticing than asking directly to the person. But, sometimes, questing can be a good move than observation.
Have you ever struggled with addiction?
Addictions are hard to deal with. So, if your boyfriend has had something like addiction before; you don't know about, you can learn about that part of your boyfriend's life.
Have you ever been in an emotionally or physically abusive relationship?
This can be a sensitive topic to talk about. Yes, it can be an excellent topic to speak about and know, whether they have been going through such relationships.
Do you think a relationship can come back from cheating?
Cheating can not be the solution for any problem, to maintain the relationship or bring back someone in your life. So, ask this question and see what your boyfriend feels about this topic.
What is your biggest regret?
Ask this question and see whether your boyfriend shares about their referring experience in their life. But, I'm sure you will get an honest answer to this question.
Who are you jealous of?
Guys don't generally admit, even if they feel jealous of. But, if you ask this question in the game, you have a chance to get an honest answer to this question.
What was the most challenging time in your life?
This question may bring bad memories of your boyfriend's life in front of you. But indeed it will help you to know about their past bad experiences and life.
The Bottom Line
I have mentioned a very few questions, that you can ask your friend, girlfriend or boyfriend to know many things about them. But, this list can vary for everybody. You can make a list and write down all those questions that you wanted to know by them. You can make a list to play with the crush, best friend, and so on. I'm sure you will enjoy the game. The game doesn't only make you know the person better than ever, but you both can feel a good bond between you two people.