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You may have learned about the game; 21 questions ask to the people. Nowadays, this game is trending in young people to have fun.
Well, even though it is a game, but the purpose of the game is to know each other. In this game, one has to make a list of the question and ask the other one by one.
You can play it as one is asking, and the other is answering the questions. But, if you want, you can ask the questions alternatively so that you both can enjoy the game of question and answer.
At the end of the game, you will know the person better than before, making this game enjoyable to play. So, be with me throughout the article and see what questions you can use to play this game. And, here I started:
21 Questions for Friend
What embarrasses you the most, and what's been your most embarrassing moment?
If you want to know your friend, you can ask this question, about what they find so embarrassing that they never choose it to do anyhow. And, also, you can know, whether they have gone through any of such experience. It will be fun.
Who do you look up to the most, and what qualities do you love about that person?
This question will help you to know about your friend's admirable person in their life, and the reason for their appreciation by your friend.
What would be your perfect day?
Ask this question to your friend and know what things can make a perfect day for your friend. This can be a fantastic way to know your friend.
What's your biggest fear?
If you don't know about your friends' fear factors, this question will help you learn about your friend.
How do you like to be comforted when you're sad or upset?
Not everyone gets relaxed by the same thing, or they don't find the same medium to calm down. So, ask this question and see your friend's cup of tea to get comfortable when they are upset.
What's your all-time favorite memory?
This can be another good question to know your friend closely by knowing and being a part of their favorite memory.
Have you ever been in real danger?
Well, such things do not happen with everyone, but yes, if your friend has something to share like this with you, you will enjoy listing to it.
Do you cook often?
If you don't know whether your friend can cook or not, or they go to the kitchens and cook the meal, ask this question, you will get an answer. You will enjoy the topic.
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve eaten?
Such topics often get the humor to the conversation. Also, this will make your interaction exciting and fulfilled.
What don’t you do enough of?
Ask this question and see which part of life your friend reveals in front of you.
Do you get stage fright?
Well, many of you may have this problem. So, this question can make you understand many things about your friend.
How was your first day of school?
Well, school memories bring a smile to the face. On the first day of school, someone may probably recognize the school. But in the end, you both will have a good conversation on this topic.
Do you often sympathize with the villain?
This is something exciting and different topic to know about. But, just for fun, you can ask this question and get a great answer and conversation on this topic.
Are there any websites that you visit daily?
We can't live without mobile and social media. But, what is our favorite place to spend most of the time is interesting to know about. So, this question will help you to see this thing about your friend.
Have you ever went on a diet?
Well, you can ask this question, if you and your friend know each other for a short period. So, this will help you to know about their health care.
When you were a kid, did you look forward to being an adult?
I'm sure; when you were a kid, you have had this thought multiple times. Indeed your friend too has had this thought. So, with this question, you can talk about the various topics.
Do you care about updating your phone to a new model often?
This question helps you know about your friends' thinking about the phone and what they think about updating the mobile phone often.
What’s the most unusual event you’ve ever attended?
If I was asked this question, I have many such events where I didn't expect to be. Your friend may also have such a memory. So, try out this question and see what they reply to you.
What’s your favorite decade of movies?
This can be an excellent question to ask while being in the game to know about the movie choice of your friend. This topic can go longer and bring many things in between in your conversation, such as favorite music, singer, song, etc.
Do you prefer to watch a movie alone or with other people?
Ask this question and get a great answer to this question. Also, you will contact many other topics to discuss the same issue.
Do you ever participate in the local cultural stuff your city has to offer?
This question will help you to know about the cultural interest of your friend and what they think about such things. This also brings the personality of the human in front of you.
21 Questions for Girlfriend
Do you believe in God?
It is not essential for everyone to believe in God. Instead, it is an individual choice to trust it or not. So, it can be a good question to know about your girlfriend and their perspective on this topic.
What social causes do you feel passionate about?
If your girlfriend has an interest in social activities, this can be a good question for you to know about your girlfriend's reason for the passion for the social cause.
What do you want to be remembered for?
Everyone has an idea for this question for which they are working so hard to get the result. So, ask this question to your girlfriend and know what they feel about this topic.
Who have you been friends with the longest?
This question will help you to know about the close friends of your girlfriend. Also, this question will make you understand the entire friend circle of your girlfriend.
How long was your longest relationship?
This question is related to the past life of your girlfriend. So, it will be a good question to know about their previous relationships.
Are you close with your family?
With this question, you will understand the bond that your girlfriend share with their family; also the people in their family. So, it can be a great question to know about them more.
If you got pregnant today, what would you do?
This can be a serious topic to discuss about. But, I would say, it can be a critical question too, to ask in your relationship. So, try out this question and see what they think about this.
What have challenging experiences made you stronger?
If someone is so strong, indeed, there is a reason behind the scenes. Experiences make you stronger. So, ask your girlfriend and get an answer to this question that can amaze you.
What inspires you?
With this question, you will get to know the source of the inspiration your girlfriend has. Whereas, this topic can go so good to know each other.
What are your life goals?
Talking about life goals means having an exciting and deeper conversation that can tell you many things. So it can be an excellent question for you both.
Who do you look up to?
You may get a great answer to this question. Indeed, you will have a good interaction over this topic.
How do you want to be proposed to? In a crowded city square with a backing band or privately on a scenic mountaintop?
This is a good idea to know about your girlfriend's dream proposal. Maybe they don't tell you about this in general, but as you both are in a game, they will have to answer this question.
What song do you wish was written about you?
Well, every girl wants a song that their boyfriend should dedicate to them. So, it can be a good question to know which music they feel would have to be written for them.
What kind of wedding do you want? A beach ceremony with 50 of your closest friends, or a great blowout with 300 people and a live band?
This is like a dream come true when a girl gets a boy they love. So, this question can also be like the same, the plan comes true. And it is the first step towards that. So, no girl can lie about this topic. So, you are going to get a great answer to this question.
Do you believe in soul mates?
Soul mates are hard to find. And, somewhere, every girl believes on this site. So, ask this question to your girlfriend and know what they think about this topic.
Who was your first crush?
I think your girlfriend would love to answer this question. As talking about the first crush can be an exciting topic for them.
How do you know when you're in love?
The feeling of being in love is one of the best feelings ever. So, when someone starts realizing it, nothing can be as great as it. You will have a good conversation about this topic.
Are relationships meant to last forever?
Well, relationships should be handled carefully and keep lasting forever. But, people may have different options on this topic. So, know what your girlfriend thinks about this topic with this question.
What is your ideal date: horseback riding followed by a dinner prepared by your date, or dinner out at a romantic restaurant, followed by club-hopping?
This question will clear your girlfriend's idea or expectations about an ideal date, which can help you arrange the one for the next time you go on a date.
Would you ever quit your job or move to a new city for your partner?
This is always something a girl has to decide about. So, what your girlfriend thinks and will do if they have to do it; get an answer for this question by your girl.
How many times have you been in love?
I think true love can happen once in a life. But, people may have a conflict on it. So, ask this question and see what your girlfriend thinks about his topic.
21 Questions for Boyfriend
How long was your longest relationship? Why did it end?
If you want to know about your boyfriend's previous relationships and the reason for the end of them, you can ask this question.
Have you ever been engaged or married? Do you ever want to get married?
Well, ask this question to your boyfriend and see what they say about this topic. It can also help you know about their opinions on the marriage, leading you to an exciting conversation.
Have you ever lived with a partner?
We call it a live-in relationship, which is common nowadays. So, this question will help you to know the opinion of your boyfriend about this topic.
How important is religion or spirituality to you?
Again, everyone can have different options on this topic. So, this question will help you to know your boyfriend's opinion about this topic and also, what they feel about such things like, the religions and spirituality, etc.
How do you feel about gay rights?
Well, this can be an excellent topic to have a conversation with between you too. This question will not only give a good case to know each thinking about such sensitive issues but also know about the person your boyfriend is.
Do you think money can buy happiness?
I believe money is so important to live life happily. Still, we can see many people are not happy even though they have a lot of cash. So, ask this question and see what your boyfriend has an opinion about this event.
What is your dream job?
Talking about your boyfriend's dream job can be a good thing to know more about their career choices, the passions, and the work they want to do.
What one thing do you want to accomplish in your life?
Everyone has an idea in their mind, what they want to achieve in their life. So, it can be another good topic to know your boyfriend and their dreams.
What accomplishment are you most proud of?
Accomplishments are something that any way to be proud of. But, there is something that makes you feel so proud of achieving it. So, this question will reveal those parts of your boyfriend's life to knows about.
What are you afraid of?
If you can talk about this topic, and your boyfriend also shares this information with you, it means you both have a perfect bond with each other.
How would you describe your relationship with your family?
This question will lead you to know about your boyfriend's family and their relationship with the family members.
Do you have a best friend?
When you ask this question, you are trying to know your boyfriend's best friend or friend's circle, which will make you know your boyfriend more than before.
What is your love language?
Love languages can be different for anyone. Some may find the love in a tiny gesture, wherein some may find it in huge treats and gifts. So, ask this question to your boyfriend and see what their love language is.
Are you an introvert (those who recharge by being alone) or an extrovert (those who feel energized from being around other people)?
Even if you know the answer to this question, you can ask this question to your boyfriend and see whether you were right or wrong about the solution you know.
Do you hold grudges?
Well, this is more about noticing than asking directly to the person. But, sometimes, questing can be a good move than observation.
Have you ever struggled with addiction?
Addictions are hard to deal with. So, if your boyfriend has had something like addiction before; you don't know about, you can learn about that part of your boyfriend's life.
Have you ever been in an emotionally or physically abusive relationship?
This can be a sensitive topic to talk about. Yes, it can be an excellent topic to speak about and know, whether they have been going through such relationships.
Do you think a relationship can come back from cheating?
Cheating can not be the solution for any problem, to maintain the relationship or bring back someone in your life. So, ask this question and see what your boyfriend feels about this topic.
What is your biggest regret?
Ask this question and see whether your boyfriend shares about their referring experience in their life. But, I'm sure you will get an honest answer to this question.
Who are you jealous of?
Guys don't generally admit, even if they feel jealous of. But, if you ask this question in the game, you have a chance to get an honest answer to this question.
What was the most challenging time in your life?
This question may bring bad memories of your boyfriend's life in front of you. But indeed it will help you to know about their past bad experiences and life.
The Bottom Line
I have mentioned a very few questions, that you can ask your friend, girlfriend or boyfriend to know many things about them. But, this list can vary for everybody. You can make a list and write down all those questions that you wanted to know by them. You can make a list to play with the crush, best friend, and so on. I'm sure you will enjoy the game. The game doesn't only make you know the person better than ever, but you both can feel a good bond between you two people.
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Once there was a farmer who used to sell 10 kg of butter to a shopkeeper. He has become the regular seller of the shopkeeper. One day the shopkeeper thought of measuring the butter, whether the farmer gives him the correct quantity or not. So, after buying the butter, the shopkeeper measures the butter and found that it was less than 10 kg.
The shopkeeper takes the farmer to court. The judge asks the farmer," why did you cheat the shopkeeper. Instead of giving him the correct measurement, which alias used to provide him with less quantity."
The farmer replied that he doesn't have anything to measure the quantity. He only has one measurement using that; he gives the butter to the shopkeeper.
Judge asked the farmer, "what is it?"
The farmer replied, "I purchase 10 kg of bread from the shopkeeper. And, in the same container, I put butter in it and sell it to the shopkeeper."
He continues, "if he has found the butter, less than 10 kg, he might have sold be the bread less than the right quantity."
The Morel: You might have heard that you give will come back to you for sure. I don't know in what form, but you will get it anyway. If you give respect, you wi be respected. You give grief; you will receive sadness. This story is the best example that proves; Every action has equal and opposite reactions.
The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will. Vince Lombardi
One day, in a seminar, the host ask 150 people to play a game. First, he asks them to pick up a balloon and write their name on it. When the people do it, the host asks them to go into a room and drop their balloon in the empty space.
The people return to him, dropping their balloon. Then the host asks the same group to go to the room and take their balloon and come back here. Everyone goes to the room and looks for their balloon. While looking for the balloon, there push other people aside, go over them, and through others balloon aside from them.
They were asked to come back in two minutes. And after the time is done, everyone returns with an empty hand. The host again asks the same group to go to the room, pick up a random balloon, and return it to the balloon's owner. After two minutes, everyone returns with their balloons in their hand.
The host says, "this is what we do in real life also. We keep aside other's happiness to look for ourselves. But we forgot that if you can't make others happy, you can be satisfied too. "
The Morel: The secret of happiness is, be helping to others. Find your joy in other's happiness. When you give a smile to other's faces, you will ultimately get a reason to smile. You don't have to run for joy when you help others. And, success can be achieved in the same way. By helping others and taking others together, you can get win only.
I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed. Michael Jordan
There was a company, who's boss was so strict, and employees didn't like him at all. One day, when all the employees come to the office, they see a notice on the door, "the one who was holding you back died yesterday. Please gather in the seminar hall for condolences."
Reading this notice, every one of them thinks that the boss dies. They feel so sad. And everyone started moving to the auditorium. When they enter the hall, they see the boss sitting on the chair fit and refined and a coffin placed in front of him. Each one of them was shocked, who is died then.
One by one, everyone comes to the coffin and sees inside it. But, when they looked inside the coffin, everyone was shocked. As, inside the coffin, there was a mirror only where they saw their own images.
Besides the mirror, there was a letter, "The person who was holding you back is you. There is no other person in the world who can hold you back rather than you. You are the biggest speed breaker for your success. Unless and until you understand this fact, you can't get success."
The Morel: The one who is the doer is you for yourself. You can make you successful and unsuccessful at times. No one can hold you at any sort of time.
Only you can keep you and release you to do something extraordinary. Don't put limits on yourself. Be limitless. You have the best relationship with you. If people are blaming you, making fun of you based on your efforts, it means you are logging at some point. So, don't blame others for their perception of you. As somewhere you have given them a reason to think like this.
Once, there was a man who was so intelligent. People know him and their work. And they used to appreciate him due to his works. He used to calculate and study every single thing that he was doing. Then, one day, he notices that his shoes are going to tire soon. He realized that he had worked so hard, and as a result, his shoes will be split into two parts.
He decided to buy a pair of shoes. So he thinks of going online and looking for the shoes that are best suited for him. Meanwhile, he also believes that what if he bought the wrong pair. So, he wanted to be sure before purchasing the shoes. So, he takes off all the books that he was appreciated the most. And after too much research, he finally reaches the solution that how he needs to buy shoes.
He makes all the measurements using the scales. On the next day, he went to the shop and selected a pair of shoes. But then he realized that he had forgotten the scale at home. So he goes back home, but he realized that his boots are torn. And he has to walk to the house barefoot.
In a school, one camp was organized for the students. The counselor comes to the auditorium and asks students to share their experiences that have hurt them badly.
One of the students stood up and said that one of his friends says something to him that had hurt them so badly. And, they can not forget what their friend has told them.
Then the counselor puts up the chalk and breaks it into two parts. Then they ask the students whether anyone can join it back and make it like before. Everyone says no.
Then the counselor says, "like, you can not join this chalk back, and make it like before, you can not take your words back. Your words are the most powerful. So, use it wisely. It may give you an injury severe than any of the weapons."
The Morel: We can not live without talking with each other. Being in a conversation, words are the most important things that help have a good relationship and bond. Conversely, if you use the wrong words, your most robust relationship can be faded away.
Right words heal, where bad words injure you the severe. You can't take the terms back. Once you said something that could hurt the feelings of somebody, your 100 times "I'm sorry" can't make it right. Take some time to think before you utter a word. You should know what to speak and when to speak. As if you learn to speak wisely, you are successful.
Success is achieved and maintained by those who try and keep trying. W. Clement Stone
Once, there was a Carpenter who was nearby his retirement. He goes to his boss and informs him about his retirement. The boss got sad, as the carpenter was one of the best employees he had ever.
The boss asked the carpenter to build the last house for him before his retirement. Though the man didn't want to do it, he agreed to do so. And he started working in it. He was such an experienced and knowledgeable person. But, as it was his last house, who doesn't take too much effort, uses average interiors, and so on.
When it gets ready, he gives the key of the house to the boss, and the boss provides access to the carpenter's return, saying, " it is the gift for you from my side."
The carpenter thinks that if the world has known that it is for him, he would have taken the double efforts and gave a quality product.
The Morel: We often save our energy for the next day, which we don't know, what and how it will be. This story teaches us to give 100% at the moment. You waste your time giving excuses and then complaining about the outcome. If you don't give your best, how can you get the best?
Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming. John Wooden
In a classroom, a professor asks a student to come forward. When he comes out, the professor asks him to put his hands on a level outside his body alignment. When he does it, he puts two books in his hands. And ask the student if it is heavy or not. The student says it's very light.
After 5 minutes, the professor again asked the student if it is heavy or not. The student again replied the same. Then, the professor gets busy interacting with the class. After 15 minutes, the professor repeats the same question. This time, the student replied, he is feeling muscle pain. Then the professor asked him to go back to his seat.
The professor explains that if the boy had held the book for 1 hour, he might feel keeping the heaviest thing. But, if he holds the book for a day or the week, his hand may feel paralyzed and numb.
Similarly, the book refers to the stress and worries in your life. If you hold them for few minutes, that's ok. Buy, if you have them for much time, it will give you pain, mentally and physically. It will help if you let go of them as soon as possible. Otherwise, they will paralyze your brain.
The Morel: If you can't hold your happiness for longer, why do you carry your stress everywhere you go. It will give you nothing but sadness and more anxiety. Let go of your tension. Don't carry them everywhere. Free up your mind so that they can have a space for new ideas.
Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. Bruce Lee
There was an older man who had five sons. The man was rich, but he was old now. His sons always used to fight with each other. And, the man was so stressed due to this behavior of his son. Now, their fight was raised before ever, and the people around them used to make fun of them for fighting all the time.
One day, he gets sick. He wanted his son to be united before he died. So, he calls his sons and says, "dear, if you do what I will ask you to do, in less time, you will get the rewards for it." Everyone gets agreed.
Now the man gives each one of them a bundle of 10 sticks to break and asks them to divide it into two half. Whoever will do it in less time will be the winner. So, the sons started breaking the sticks and finish the task in very little time. But, now, they again began to fight, who did the first.
The man says, "the task is not finished yet." He again gives a bundle of 10 sticks to each one of them and asks them to beak it in one go rather than to break them individually. After many tries, no one can break it. And the admission that they are failed.
Once, there was a king who was so helpful. He has a person in his kingdom who was so clever. And the king used to admire the person the most.
One day, the king and the person goes the riverside. They were talking and discussing some severe topic.
Meanwhile, the king draws a line on the coast of the river and asked the man to reduce the length of the line without touching it or wiping it. After thinking for some time, the man draws an extensive line aside from the last line and tells the king that his line is shorter.
The King gets pleased with the man again.
The Morel: Try to look for the options around you. If you keep yourself closed in a box, don't let yourself breathe in the air, you won't be able to survive. Put yourself in extreme conditions to know your capabilities. Make your mind living. Think out of the box.
Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success. Swami Vivekananda
A man used to walk his dog every day in the morning. Every week he was noticing a woman nearby a lake. Week after week passed by. And then he finally goes to the woman asked, " would you mind if I ask, what do you do here every week?"
The woman had a cage beside her, three turtles on her lap, and the fourth one in her hand; she was wiping with a sponge.
She smiled and replied, "I'm cleaning the argue and scum that grows upon the turtle's shell as it would reduce their ability to soak heat and reduce their swimming capacity. It so can get corrode and got weaken with time. I do it every weekend."
The man smiles and says, "But do you think you are making a huge difference? As there are not so many people in the world who do this. And the other turtles may be living with the algae and scums."
The women replied, "if these turtles were talking, they would say, I'm making a huge difference."
The Morel: You may not change the world, but you can change someone's life. You may not matter for the world, but it might be the world for someone. Only because you can't change the world doesn't mean you shouldn't try to help people. You might never know; your small help can make a huge difference in someone's life.
Success is sweet and sweeter if long delayed and gotten through many struggles and defeats. Amos Bronson Alcott
Two kids, a boy, and a girl, were playing on the ground afternoon. First, the boy shows the girl his collection of the pabbles, which was too beautiful. Then the girl also shows him her collection of candies.
They both make a deal of exchanging this collection. The girl gives her all the candies to the boy. Boy gives all of his pabbles to the girl. But, he keeps one of the most beautiful and big stones to him, without her knowledge. And they both were so happy.
In the night, the girl was so happy that she has got a perfect collection. And she goes to sleep thinking about the pabbles. But, on the other hand, the boy could not sleep, as he thinks, if the girl has also put some candies on her, as he did.
The Morel: What you give, that you take. Whatever the relationship is, trust is essential. If one is cheating, he will always think that the other person is also cheating him. As you believe, you grow up. So, think positive. Be honest. It is the ultimate secret to your success.
Desire is the key to motivation, but it's determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek. Mario Andretti
Once a boy asks an old man, "what is the secret of success?" The man told the boy that to meet him on the riverside the following day.
The boy gets ready and goes to the riverside the following day to meet the older man. The man and the boy started walking through the river till the boy's nose ducked in the water.
Now, the older man punches the boy's head inside the water and doesn't let him come up. The boy struggles a lot to come out, but the man pushes him in the opposite direction. The boy feels that a fish is swimming underneath his leg, and he tried to come up hard.
Now, the man pulls the boy and makes his breathing. And, asked him, "when you were inside the water, what did you want?" The boy replied, "The Air." Yeah, this is the secret of success.
Until and unless you want success, like wanting air, you can not achieve it.
The Morel: The desires give birth to Success. If you want to be in the pot, just because you can, you won't be able to get success. On the other hand, if you desire success as essential as the air, you will definitely go to get it.
The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way. Robert Kiyosaki
Once, a leader in a seminar hall shows the audience of 200 people a $50 pouch. Then he asked them, " who wants this pouch?" And everyone raises their hand in the air.
He said, "I will give this money to any one of you. But before that.....he asked one again, who wants the pouch?" And again, everyone agreed.
Then he tried to make as much money as possible as it hardly looks like wasted tissue paper. And, he again asked the audience whether they want it or not. And, everyone again agreed to have it.
The Morel: No matter how challenging your life is, how challenging the situation is, your life and the worth of your life don't decrease. Often you might face the case where you feel inadequate but remember your worth. And be proud of it. As if you value yourself, the world will love you.
You don't have to be a genius or a visionary or even a college graduate to be successful. You just need a framework and a dream. Michael Dell
Once, in a small village, there was a businessman who was having huge debts. And, he was not in the condition to return all his obligations to the bank. Moreover, the banker was an old and unappealing man who firmly wanted to marry that businessman's daughter.
One day, the business owner went to the banker and wanted to have a deal so that he doesn't have to pay the debts. Banker puts a condition of marrying his daughter. But, the business's owner didn't want to do that. But, he didn't have any choice to be debt-free as the debts were too huge to return.
He will put two stones in a bag, black and white. If the girl chooses the white stone blindly, the businessman's debts will be cleared, and the daughter will not have to marry him. And if she selects the black stone, she will have to marry him, and the debts will be cleared.
The banker picks up two black stones. The daughter was watching the banker from the window.
Once, A mommy camel and her newborn were turning in, soaking up the sun. The baby camel asked his mum, “Why are we with these large bumps on our back?”
The mammy thinks for some time and then said, “We are living in the desert where there is a shortage of water. Our humps reserve water to support us survive on long trips." The baby camel again questions, “Well, what is the use of these long legs with rounded feet?”
His mum answered back, “They are signified to enable us to walk through the sand.” The baby asked the third question, “Why are my eyelashes so long?”The mother answered, “Your long eyelashes you from sand when it hits in the wind.”
In the last, the baby asked, “if we all have the skills naturally to live our life, then what is the use of the Camels in Zoo?"
The Moral: It shows that your abilities won't have meaning until you use them. You might have heard about the persons, who have left their jobs to follow their dreams. Now, you have to decide, you either want to do your job only, or to live your dream. Maybe your plan gives you a struggle initially. But, it would help if you had the confidence that you will make a change. Think big, keep growing.
All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure. Mark Twain
Once, there was a king. One day, he thought of experimenting on these people. So, he put a massive rock in the middle of the road, and hide nearby to see, what people do seeing the stone on the road.
After waiting for some time, he sees some wealthy merchants passing by. They walk by the rock, blaming the king that is not doing his duties. Then after some time, a peasant goes by the same way.
He had some heavy stuff over his head. Seeing the rock in the middle of the road, he stopped and tried to move the rock sideways.
It takes some time for him to clear the road, but he does it and goes back to his work. The next day, the same thing happens, but this time, there was a change.
He saw a sag filled with gold coins with a letter saying, "It is the reward for your work you did yesterday." It was the king who placed the sag for his work.
The Morel: Don't complain about things. Take action to make a change. You have the strength to challenge situations that look tough. So, go ahead, and challenge the challenging situation. Also, karma comes back. So, if your karma is good, you will get a good reward and vice versa.
Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds. Orison Swett Marden
A long time ago, a man was living at $99 social insurance bills, at the age of 65, in a small house. Even at the age of 65s, he wanted to do something to change his life. He was thinking about what he should do so that he can change his life. And, he had an idea. He thought of the selling fried chicken recipe that his family and friends loved.
With the thought, he leaves his home and visits various restaurants to sell his recipe. But he fails. He gets around 1009 Nos. He was also ready to give it for free, but no one agreed. In the last when he visited 1010 restaurants, he spawns a Yes.
His name is Colonel Hartland Sanders. And, the rest of the history, you know.
The Moral: This story gives you too many lessons. First is, it's never too late for a start. In the society of younger strength, Colonel Sanders has set an example; age is just a number. The second is belief in yourself. Have confidence in yourself. The third is consistency: one story, many lessons.
Success isn't measured by money or power or social rank. Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. Mike Ditka
Once, there was a seminar in an auditorium. The host asked people, "how many of you are moved on with your past?" Very few hands were raised. Then to change the environment, he cracks the joke, and everyone started laughing.
Then, the guy cracks the same joke for the second time. This time, very few people laugh. Then, he again cracks the joke. This time, no one laughed.
Then, he explains that if you can laugh at the same trick, why do you complain and stuck with your past?
Going back in the past and again and thinking about the past can't be the solution for any of the problems; it will not assist you with anything, anyway.
The Morel: People in this world are so happy and comfortable with their past. They keep complaining about the same and don't want to see the present and the future. Instead, they should learn to deal with the situation and start looking at every moment in a new way.
There are people who make things happen, there are people who watch things happen, and there are people who wonder what happened. To be successful, you need to be a person who makes things happen. Jim Lovell
Once, a man was coming to an elephant camp. He notices that all the elements were tied with a single rope, and it was tied in a leg only. Every elephant had the same situation. He got confused, so he goes to one of the trainers there.
He asks the trainer, "why the elephants are not breaking the rope and trying to get free. When they easily can do it. They have enough of the strength to do this."
The trainer replies to the man, "when the elephants were small, the rope was enough to hold them. The elephants are tied with the same rope from their childhood to adulthood. But, today also, the elephants think that they can't break the tope, and thus they don't try to do this."
The Morel: In the story, the elephants have made their opinions that they can't get through the situation when they easily can do it. They are stuck ad their past condition and don't even try to deal with the states with the new attitude.
The same thing applies to the human. If they have made any past mistakes, they think they should not repeat the situation without pain and failure.
Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally. David Frost
Once, a man came to know about a mine, where he was supposed to find the diamonds. He worked so hard for so long, quitting all his works.
After some time, it was so tiresome for him to continue his mining. And, he left the work. After some days, another man came to know about the incident. And he decides to keep the mining continue from where the first man leaves the work. As soon as he started, in two-three days, he gets the diamond.
The Morel: We learn here that never give up on anything. You might never know; the success could be just in front of you after some steps more.
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. Booker T. Washington
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