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Most of us are taught right from a very young age to be selfless and share. It's one of the basic lessons taught to a kid. Kids are always taught to put the needs of others before their own. Selflessness is a virtue. But is that true? Like, can a person be selfless all the time? Being too selfless can end up being bad in the long run. We may end up neglecting our own needs in favor of helping others. When our wants are not met, we become upset and unfulfilled.Is being self-centered a good thing?A balance is needed...View more

Life is a journey, and we manage to meet pretty much all kinds of people in it. Kind, Smart, Cunning, Happy-go-lucky. But, the toughest is the self-centered lot. Extremely self-involved in their life, they can be easily spotted in a crowd, boasting about their achievements. Quite often, they are pretty tough to handle.So how do we deal with this lot? Avoid them? Runaway? But before that, let's see how certain people turn up so self-obsessed with their lives, shunning everything else as trivial!What causes a person to be self-centered?The seeds of self-centeredness are mostly sown at an early age. It...View more

Often when we are at a party or gathering, there is always a person who boasts about achieving a lot in life. Such people always need to be the center of attention in public places. These self-absorbed people are energy vampires who suck the life out of events or even people.21 signs of a Self-centered person Some sure-fire signs let us identify such people so that we can stay clear of them:1. Don't compromise on opinions: Self-confident people are sure about their views. They always stick to their viewpoints. They back their opinions with suitable proof. Self-absorbed people are quite...View more

I guess every one of you has had that moment ever that you hesitate to do or speak something. Well, it's not the wrong thing sometimes. But, it is not good when you need to speak up. For example, in a class lecture, you had a doubt, and you didn't raise your hand to get a solution to it. You would find it difficult to speak up in a class. It might be, this example is relatable to many of you. Even I am one of them. I used to procrastinate a lot when asking something to the teacher if...View more

"If they can do it, let them do it. If they can't do it, how can I do it?"This is the quote I read somewhere, and it made me think for a while. Anyway, it is true also. People in our society, or even you, have the same mindset about any task. And you easily give up on anything unexpectedly. I agree that when after too much hardship, you don't receive the positive result out of your work, getting disappointed is evident. You may lose your hopes. You feel like a loser. But, have your feelings changed the fact? Okay,...View more

Evolution is a necessary part of life. Every one of us changes with time. Change is constant. You can't avoid changes in life. So just adapt and change with the changes in your surroundings.These changes can help you to discover the purpose of your life. It is always your choice to attract the positive changes that lead to the betterment of your living standards. Every person has been through the bad times where he/she thinks, "I want to change my life." Wanting to change is the first step of transformation, but just thinking about the change won't do anything. You...View more

You should think out of the box!!!Whenever you are having the worst times of your lives where you feel stuck in all the areas, don't find a way to make a move, and it seems all the doors are shut, people will indeed suggest you think out of the box. But, what is the box? And, how should you go beyond the box? I don't know if you ever had this question, but when my teacher used this phrase for the first time, my mind continued to attack this question. Well, as easy it is advising someone that you need...View more

Life........!!!!!A concise word, but it has a profound meaning. I would not be wrong if I said, very few people can know or have learned the fundamental importance of life. I read somewhere if you want to know the importance of life, like them, who just returned knowing death's door. I was always too curious to know,What is life?Life! The word sounds too small, but it is a long journey that few people find pleasing, and for a few, it's unpleasant. If going with the official statement of Life, It is a condition that differentiates plants and animals from inorganic...View more

By nature, we tend to speak our own language. Whatever makes us feel loved is what we do for the other person. But if it is not his/her language, it will not mean to them what it means to us. - Gary Chapman, Things I wish I knew before I got married

Everyone suggests you be satisfied, whatever ups and downs come in your way. Instead, I believe being happy is an art. Even though everyone has this skill. But very few people are aware of this. You will agree with me if I say, even if happy people are like you, they are still different from everyone. Happy people always get recognition over those who being sad every time. Being happy does not mean you don't have any issues, you have achieved everything you wanted to, or you don't have to grieve. Happiness is beyond all these things. So, with the...View more

Do you have a bunch of papers to read in a short time? And you are confused and questioned how you could finish all of them in a short time? Well, whether it's a book, the newspaper, or a work page, if you have less time, yet, you don't have the option to skip the reading, you need to increase your time to read the pages before your deadlines approach you. So, our today's aim is to help you with your reading speed. Here, I came with some of the proven ways that will help you with your reading speed....View more

Life is the journey between the two letters, B and D; where B refers the Birth and D stands for Death. And, in the duration between these two letters is called life which is incomplete without the people around you.So, if someone in your life betrayed you badly, you start looking at other people with the same frame and being socially inactive. Just because you had one wrong person in your life, who broke your trust and hurt you badly, your mind doesn't allow you to trust another person, even if they are real. Well, this happens, especially in the...View more

Have you been thinking about going vegetarian? Wondering where to begin? Clouded with so many doubts about becoming vegetarian? Well, you are in the right place! Let’s get started. What do you mean by a Vegetarian Diet? Simply put, vegetarians do not eat the meat of any type. And it doesn’t end there. The University of New Hampshire blog describes 7 types of Vegetarians. Lacto vegetarians: · Consumes plant-based foods. · Takes dairy. · No eggs · No meat. Ovo Vegetarians: · Take plant-based foods. · Take eggs. · No Meat or dairy. Lacto-Ovo Vegetarians: · Take Plant-based foods. ·...View more

Verbal communication is essential in order to understand what is going on inside other people. If they do not tell us their thoughts, their feelings, and their experiences, we are left to guess. - Dr. Gary Chapman, Now You're Speaking My Language

I'm tired of talking, explaining myself. I don't want to listen to anyone. I don't want to get baffled in these words battles." I'm sure that even you have gone through such stages in your life at least once. Generally, when we are in the age groups of 18-25, we face many unexpected changes. At that time, we realize that being silent works more than speaking. Sometimes, even if we try to explain our side politely, the person in front of us takes it in a wrong way and makes judgments based on incomplete conversations. That's the moment when we...View more

We are the saddest generation with the happiest pictures on social media. I read it on an Instagram post. But how true is it? Indeed, or not at all? After reading this, I feel attacked because, somewhere, I found myself in the same state of life. We get such thoughts not because we don't live life to the fullest, but because we never tried to know how to live life to the fullest. We never recognize what the way of life is. 110 ways to live life to the fullestThere is not any rocket science in living life happily. It...View more

It can be very annoying to know what to say when a person expires, which means something comfortable and supportive that doesn't cause more discomfort or hurt. Yet what are the "exactly correct" words of comfort for loss, to say when a person is no more?Since we don't like to talk about passing, it implies that our response is frequently unpleasant. We find that dealing with misfortune is difficult, especially when trying to console somebody. Including this reality, there is no right science for unhappiness. The way each person suffers is unique. And what they need most from their peers...View more

“SMILING AT ONE STRANGER EVERYDAY, MAKES YOU HAPPIER. " I read it somewhere and tried it too. Generally, smiling at stranger kids makes us happy, as they smile back at us. Everyone should try this; we never know from where and how happiness would come. Maybe that one smile from an unknown one would make your day….!! It is all about how you decide to be happy and in which thing you find your happiness.What is happiness? What I think is, when we are extremely satisfied with our current mental state and grateful for everything we have when we find...View more

Communication sometimes is not what you first hear, listen not just to the words, but listen for the reason. - Catherine Pulsifer

'WARNING' Self-doubt is injurious to health. Seems funny, but the harsh truth. We all do this to ourselves now and then. And because of these self-doubts, we make simple things and decisions complicated, which lead to hiding our potential. Every time we see or face a new thing, the first thing we ask ourselves is, 'Can I do this?'. Here self-doubt arises. So, until we say, 'Why can’t? We will never be able to do that particular task. It is all about what you say, ask and command your mind to do; it all starts with this small question and...View more

It's not just you, not just me; billions of people around us feeling lost and lonely. We all have that one phase in our life where we completely feel lost. We don’t know where our life is moving. Where are we moving to, ahead or backward? We become clueless about things. No matter how big achievers we are. There's one point in everyone's life where we feel everything chaotic. Sometimes even the smallest things seem more complex, and then thoughts reach a peak.The first thing we all need to understand is that this is not a mental problem or something...View more

"Karma is real," "Karma hits back"; plenty of such quotes and posts roam throughout social media. However, the word karma has become a flashy phrase to say often whenever something happens, which shows the consequences of any related actions. But do we ever try to understand what karma is? Only a few of us might be knowing that how is this 5-letter word affecting our lives every single minute.Everyone has heard this word for sure. Someone relates it to religious aspects; Others may call it a reward or punishment of our deeds in the past. Some numerous meanings and definitions...View more

Everyone goes through a rough phase in life for once and feels terrible. Since in some cases, despite being surrounded by many individuals, we still carry an empty feeling, an emotion no one should need to go through. This can be the reason why we ought to show all our efforts into making a difference for individuals who are feeling helpless and lonely.Comforting Somebody: 15 Ways to Help Them Feel Way betterIn some cases, it can appear like there's absolutely nothing you'll be able to do to help somebody who is feeling low. There are various ways through which you...View more

Every time I stand to communicate I want to take one simple truth and lodge it in the heart of the listener. I want them to know that one thing and know what to do with it. - Andy Stanley, Communicating for a Change